"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to keep a woman's attention?

Firefly

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I have noticed a problem in my dating recently. I am meeting a lot of women who are either in college, particuarly exchange students from the US. I meet up for a date, we seem to click, but then never hear from these girls again.

One theory that I had is that the types of girls I ask out seem to get a lot of attention, so they have a lot of choices in men.

So what can I do to keep these types of girl's attention, in light of all the competition?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon

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When with every woman no matter how great the attraction or chemistry the clock starts ticking as to when she will no longer want you... Now. You cannot stop the clock or slow it down but you can observe it closely and dump her before she dumps you to save you ego some damage..

Signs its time to get out:

1. she disrespects you
2. She does not call
3. she ignores your call
4. She got too busy for you
5. not in the mood for sex...with you
6. wants to spend more time with others
 

afrojiggles

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save ur face some disgrace and bolt elsewhere
 

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Wow that's terrible advice.

Leaving is very easy to do unfortunately you don't get anything

Does anybody have some real advice on how to keep a college aged girl interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon

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^^College aged girls are not wired to have long attention spans.. they are sowing oats and trying to tie them down is an exercise in futility. They will actually F you longer if you let them be free
 

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unfortuantely, a lot of girls are like this. yea they have a lot of options in college, so most probably aren't willing to settle down so quickly.

I think college girls are more inclined to go on group dates or tend to be more social, lke going to parties, bars, etc. So it might look like your're trying to settle down and look for a relationship when you go on these dates.

I would try doing parties or group dates instead
 
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