"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to KEEP a girlfriend

ManiacJack

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I know that there are those of you who just want a few wuick lays, of course there is, and there is nothing wrong with it if that is what you want out of being a Don Juan...

But I also know that there are those of you who want MORE than just a quick lay, and also that for some of you, the only reason you stumbled across this website because you had been chasing up lil' miss one-itis for some time and wondered why she didn't like you after the constant gifts and attention :flowers: ...

If you want a longer term relationship with girls, then you will need to know how to KEEP them...

Here is my number one rule before I go any further... REMEMBER WHY THEY LIKED YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE! I see lots of guys getting the model hot girl, and then suddenly turning into a kissass because they are going out... This is not the right behaviour, you need to keep up the whole C&F thing, or whatever you was doing which got her interested (without being offensive, not that you was being before?)...

Okay with that out of the way I will just list a few things which I think are important:

1) Keep up sexual tension
2) Try NOT to get too attatched
3) Do not talk to her TOO much (harder if you share classes)
4) Keep her wondering about how much you like her, dating or not...
5) Act as though you are a prize to HER
6) Don't do everything she says
7) Treat her well without becoming a 'nice guy'
8) Don't shower her with gifts!
9) Work on your skills in bed and learn new positions, first time doesn't matter too much as it is a new experience, but second time she will notice things more...

These are a few key points, and I hope this has helped you in learning to KEEP girls you are dating :)


ManiacJack
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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comic_relief

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ManiacJack said:
1) Keep up sexual tension
2) Try NOT to get too attatched
3) Do not talk to her TOO much (harder if you share classes)
4) Keep her wondering about how much you like her, dating or not...
5) Act as though you are a prize to HER
6) Don't do everything she says
7) Treat her well without becoming a 'nice guy'
8) Don't shower her with gifts!
9) Work on your skills in bed and learn new positions, first time doesn't matter too much as it is a new experience, but second time she will notice things more...
1.) agreed
2.) agreed, don't let her get too clingy either
3.) for your sanity, don't talk to her too much, I had a girlfriend that would call me five times per day to see how I was doing. I broke up with her a while ago.
4.) yep
5.) absolutely
6.) absoultely, you will look like a little eunich
7.) be a good guy
8.) Damn straight and if you do give her gifts, give her simple gifts. Nothing over $10 unless it is her birthday or a major holiday (fvck you Valentines Day)
9.) exactly, make sure that you can please and learn some fvcken foreplay.

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kickureface

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agreed, great stuff. there really isnt enough ltr material on here
 

typical

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Hitman10000 said:
10) Be true to yourself
I say scrap the list and just follow hitmans 'be true to yourself' advice, if you stay true to yourself then the girl will either stay or she wont, if she stays then awesome if she doesnt then she wasn't for you and you should find another.

you guys are starting to over analyze just like them chicks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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