"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to KEEP a girlfriend

ManiacJack

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I know that there are those of you who just want a few wuick lays, of course there is, and there is nothing wrong with it if that is what you want out of being a Don Juan...

But I also know that there are those of you who want MORE than just a quick lay, and also that for some of you, the only reason you stumbled across this website because you had been chasing up lil' miss one-itis for some time and wondered why she didn't like you after the constant gifts and attention :flowers: ...

If you want a longer term relationship with girls, then you will need to know how to KEEP them...

Here is my number one rule before I go any further... REMEMBER WHY THEY LIKED YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE! I see lots of guys getting the model hot girl, and then suddenly turning into a kissass because they are going out... This is not the right behaviour, you need to keep up the whole C&F thing, or whatever you was doing which got her interested (without being offensive, not that you was being before?)...

Okay with that out of the way I will just list a few things which I think are important:

1) Keep up sexual tension
2) Try NOT to get too attatched
3) Do not talk to her TOO much (harder if you share classes)
4) Keep her wondering about how much you like her, dating or not...
5) Act as though you are a prize to HER
6) Don't do everything she says
7) Treat her well without becoming a 'nice guy'
8) Don't shower her with gifts!
9) Work on your skills in bed and learn new positions, first time doesn't matter too much as it is a new experience, but second time she will notice things more...

These are a few key points, and I hope this has helped you in learning to KEEP girls you are dating :)


ManiacJack
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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comic_relief

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ManiacJack said:
1) Keep up sexual tension
2) Try NOT to get too attatched
3) Do not talk to her TOO much (harder if you share classes)
4) Keep her wondering about how much you like her, dating or not...
5) Act as though you are a prize to HER
6) Don't do everything she says
7) Treat her well without becoming a 'nice guy'
8) Don't shower her with gifts!
9) Work on your skills in bed and learn new positions, first time doesn't matter too much as it is a new experience, but second time she will notice things more...
1.) agreed
2.) agreed, don't let her get too clingy either
3.) for your sanity, don't talk to her too much, I had a girlfriend that would call me five times per day to see how I was doing. I broke up with her a while ago.
4.) yep
5.) absolutely
6.) absoultely, you will look like a little eunich
7.) be a good guy
8.) Damn straight and if you do give her gifts, give her simple gifts. Nothing over $10 unless it is her birthday or a major holiday (fvck you Valentines Day)
9.) exactly, make sure that you can please and learn some fvcken foreplay.

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kickureface

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agreed, great stuff. there really isnt enough ltr material on here
 

typical

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Hitman10000 said:
10) Be true to yourself
I say scrap the list and just follow hitmans 'be true to yourself' advice, if you stay true to yourself then the girl will either stay or she wont, if she stays then awesome if she doesnt then she wasn't for you and you should find another.

you guys are starting to over analyze just like them chicks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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