How to Keep a FVCK BUDDY

[Krunk Widdit]

What up guys,

I got a real question and I need some experienced answers.

I got this chick that I fvck with a few times a week to maybe once every three weeks. It varies.

Now this girl, She is associated with my homies and girls that I know.

The thing is , I will go over her house whenever I feel like it, and we will end up fvckin .

As of recently she has gotten attatched to me, in a more boyfriend/girlfriend type way.

We have never went out on a date or been together in public, we only fvck at her pad, my pad , or parties.

She had been acting fishy lately. The other day, We were in my house and before she left, she gazed at me real long, then kissed me twice, Smooch kisses, not like tongue and sh!t, but Smooch kisses. I could tell it was a different kind of kiss, then she told me to give her a call so we can go out.

Now the whole time I have been fvckin this girl, she has never onced told me to call her, or even thought of giving me her number.

I came to the conclusion that she wants to start goin on dates and whatnot. But now is not the time for me to start getting into deep relationships.

but

The way I see it is like this, If i dont call her, she will feel bad and will look at me different the next time i see her. But if I do call her, she will feel that I have the same kind of feeling she do. This is one of my better girls, one that I like to talk to the most, cuz she is bomb with a bomb personality.

Is it a catch 22?

How would you guys suggest I handle this?

 

[iMat]

Swallow your ego, and stop posting pointless threads while you know VERY well how to handle the situation yourself?

--iMat

 

[Soma]

Going by my past experience...

Having a fvk buddy who is part of your primary social circle is bad news. One of you is likely to get more attached than the other and it will end badly for that person. You're sh!tting where you eat (props to bb for that). You're gonna fvck yourself over my man.

If she's giving you the relationship vibes be upfront with her right now and put it on the table. If you think she wants more and you're not ready for it, end it. But do it with respect.

 

[backbreaker]

good post.

That's the thing about have a F-buddy... if they dont' end up liking you, you aren't doing your job right.

If they can't handle the fact that you have sex and only sex, they aren't f-buddies, they are girls giving it up to get you to date them.

 

[NewMan]

By definition. a Fvck buddy will not last.

Read that again.

In every situation one or the other will want more. It's very rare to be in a sitaution where both sides are fine with just fvcking (man wouldn't that be a sweet deal).

She's putting pressure on you for more.

What you must do is not waver and submit to her.

Don't call her to date - just carry on as your are. Perhaps give it a way weeks until you see her again - let her go without.

You can guarantee she will break this off - so start looking for a replacement.

 

[DJ_Dork]

She wants more than fbuddy. You brought this on yourself and IMHO you should figure this out yourself. Since you got "Stylez"

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Typically, I tell them about the other girls I'm banging and they don't try to elevate it past f-buddy.

If they do, then they're sent packing with no hard feelings from me. They're free to come back for more dyck when they get their head together.