"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to introduce yourself

brns2

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Just wondering what you guys think is the best way to introduce yourself to girls:

1) A random girl, that you want to pursue

2) Her mum

3) A friend (girl) you havnt seen in a while

As in a kiss on the cheek, a hand shake, a hug, or no contact at all?
Sorry just always felt uncomfortable and not really know the correct etiquette

Cheers guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HarlequinMan

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If you are confident any of those would work....girls seem to be comfortable with whatever you are comfortable with

I stick with handshake on first encounter....ALWAYS KINO (touch) it helps girls feel comfortable
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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To whatever girl you want to meet. All you gotta do is this.

You: Hey, hows it going?
Her: I'm good.. and you?
You: I'm good, whats your name?
Her: (Name)
You: (Her name), I'm (Your Name)

Keep it simple.
 
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