"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to Initiate Kino while Hanging out?

ForeverYoungDJ

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I've read a lot about Kino on here and escalation and why it is so important. It seems like a lot of the tips given here are how to Kino while talking 1 on 1 or in party atmosphere like a club. What about Kino when you're just hanging out, say walking around a mall together. What are some tips on Kinoing in this situation when its a little bit out of place to be touching someone a lot that you just met and how do you initiate it, escalate and keep it going? It seems kinda hard like walking and talking while also checking out the surroundings etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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amoka

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Let kino be the second you. Let it flow....
 

hondo928

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This isn't really an answer but I read something that said the longer you wait to initiate the more awkward it is, so just do it asap and you should be good, when I thought about it that's kinda right.
 

Desdinova

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In order to make Kino natural, I had to use it to work with my personality. You may want to amplify a certain aspect of your personality and make kino complement it.

What worked well for me is using it along with a sense of humor and being playful. I try to be as playful as possible with women, and kino plays into it really well. I will try to do things like initiate a "poking war". I'll poke her first and wait for her to poke back. If she doesn't respond, I do it again. Usually by then she gets the message and does it back to me. This builds comfort between the two of you, and brings her to a level where she can just have fun with you, and she'll also be comfortable with touching you. This is what you want - to have the woman on the same comfort level as you, and this is an excellent way to bring her to that level.

If you're not really comfortable with women yet, fake it. Force yourself to get your hands on her, and the anxiety will eventually pass when she starts reciprocating.
 

suaveplayer

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heres an easy one:

if you guys are walking side by side, walk a little closer to her than you normally would to other people. easy way to show that you are comfortable with invading her space and you bump into her alot. on accident of course.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Whenever you see something, touch her to grab her attention

You- Hey (touch wherever you feel is appropriate) check that out!
 

Alle_Gory

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Just do it with everybody. It makes it more natural, you'll get used to it.
That and everybody likes human touch. It feels nice.

Then step it up a little with the chicks. You'll figure out how, and when with practice.

Bam. Done.
 
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