"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how to initiate conversation

guitarmatt18

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I want to talk to this girl in my class, but during class she doesn't do anything exciting and just sits there paying attention! I need help to open up a conversation with her (and actually girls in general), can you fellow DJ's help me out and give me some advice on what to say? Thanks,
Matt
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wavejams007

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if she is the intelligent/nerdy type, find out something about what you are learning that isn't in the book and is interesting to talk about. You wil catch her attention that way.
 

mastersF

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ask her to explain a concept to u, even if u already knw abt it jz act like an idiot and let her explain, nodding ur head and showing that u understand her. thank her and give a slight compliment abt her clarity in explaining (hopefully true)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Exo

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Nouning! This tip was given to me on the boards some time back and it's had a large impact on my life in general.

Basically you just inquire about any nouns used in her sentence.
 
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just tell her that she has a pretty necklace or something and then she'll like wanna do it with you
 

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Girls are usually flattered when you ask them for help on something. Ask her to help you out with a problem or homework question, and while shes explaining it just make some funny remarks but still keep on the subject. After that just start saying hi to her in the hallways and whatnot, and just go from there.
 
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