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How to induce the sexual vibe?

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I understand that being able to induce the sexual vibe onto a woman is one of the most valuable posession that the alpha male has, probably greater than how females use seductive sexuality on us..

Also that men are supposed to be the stimulus and women the response..so that means their emotions are not supposed to affect you but your emotions will affect her..

My question is how do I go about doing that? become the stimulus and being able to induce the sexual vibe so that when girls are around me i just naturally attract them? like a magnetic field...anyone would like to share their thoughts?
 

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well...

I tend to do stuff like smile a LOT, but do it in that flirty 'you're cute' way. Practice it.

Also, shake hands when you first meet a woman you're interested in, but don't actually shake them. Hold your hand out flat and facing upward, and when she puts her hand into yours gently hold it before you let go. It's less businesslike and a lot more of an "I like you" statement.

You might want to figure out for yourself who you do these to, though...stay consistent with how you flirt. If you do with every girl, you'll get a reputation for being a huge flirt (which can be a good thing) but you'll definately have to fight off insecure girls who think you led them on.
 

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I just welcome them back to my jacuzzi, and to step out onto the balcony to see the scenery.
 

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carlitos said:
My question is how do I go about doing that? become the stimulus and being able to induce the sexual vibe so that when girls are around me i just naturally attract them? like a magnetic field...anyone would like to share their thoughts?
I hate to let this little secret out of the bag but I have realized that the people I tell it to don't tend to believe me anyway.

I have found a way to really put out the sexual vibe with a women. Do this and you will have her very interested in you for some strange reason that she can't seen to understand.

Next time you are around a women, you must start imagining having sex with here. If she is doing something, imagine yourself going over to her and touching her in a sexual way. Let your imagination run wild. Imagine grabbing her ass, sucking her nipples, fingering her, etc. Imagine her getting turned on by all of this and really enjoying it. Keep this up for 5 or 10 minutes.

Here is the crucial part. If you are interacting with her, don't leer at her or talk suggestively to her. Simply act nonchalant and keep talking about anything at all. If she gives you eye contact, keep it.

After a few minutes of this vibing towards her you will start to notice that she is enjoying your presence a lot more.

So to clarify, keep your actions and words the same as you hold a strong intent in your mind of Fing the sh!t out of her.

The women I've done this to will suddenly want to get closer to me, start smiling a lot at me and start giving me a lot of eye contact. The will try to get closer to me and engage me in conversation. Start touching me, etc.

Remember, keep it internal, it's all that's required to induce a sexual vibe in a women. They can pick up on what you want simply by having the intention in your mind. Women are amazing that way.

This works, try it and report back to me. I'll give you the rest after you have tried this part.
 

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sprinkle jokes and innuendo into your conversation

also kino on various levels
 

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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ive heard different ways to.

some say talk about s3xual things..like someone here suggests acting like someone called you and you dont take the call but tell her its your brother calling asking for s3x advice to use on his girl tonight..and you've told him how to give best oral and nipple stimulation and what you're flow of events would be..this would get her thinking about s3x which would mean she'd be turned on.

some (like the above poster) has said, think about it internally..

i think both have a good chance of working because if you mix this with scientific study you'll know that when you think about s3x or talk about s3x, you release hormones like testosterone in men and oxytocin (released in full when women have an orgasm, they get a taste of this when they're hearing about s3x or h0rny)

ive also heard this release of hormones in you can release certain scents outside of your body that will get the closest females to get turned on..im not sure of the scientific names..but u get the idea.

however my best and proven method is take them aside and escalate show no fear of being turned down..and that you know what you're doing

when you're in a group and you wanna give out the s3xual vibe..just be alpha and talk freely about s3x or jokes with innuendos in em.
 

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you need to BECOME a sexual object. a sex god.

make that be your goal if you want to be a player.

now, if you just wanna date and get a girlfriend, then just fix yourself up in the basic ways.
 
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Canadian Catnip said:
I hate to let this little secret out of the bag but I have realized that the people I tell it to don't tend to believe me anyway.

I have found a way to really put out the sexual vibe with a women. Do this and you will have her very interested in you for some strange reason that she can't seen to understand.

Next time you are around a women, you must start imagining having sex with here. If she is doing something, imagine yourself going over to her and touching her in a sexual way. Let your imagination run wild. Imagine grabbing her ass, sucking her nipples, fingering her, etc. Imagine her getting turned on by all of this and really enjoying it. Keep this up for 5 or 10 minutes.

Here is the crucial part. If you are interacting with her, don't leer at her or talk suggestively to her. Simply act nonchalant and keep talking about anything at all. If she gives you eye contact, keep it.

After a few minutes of this vibing towards her you will start to notice that she is enjoying your presence a lot more.

So to clarify, keep your actions and words the same as you hold a strong intent in your mind of Fing the sh!t out of her.

The women I've done this to will suddenly want to get closer to me, start smiling a lot at me and start giving me a lot of eye contact. The will try to get closer to me and engage me in conversation. Start touching me, etc.

Remember, keep it internal, it's all that's required to induce a sexual vibe in a women. They can pick up on what you want simply by having the intention in your mind. Women are amazing that way.

This works, try it and report back to me. I'll give you the rest after you have tried this part.
He ain't lying. It's called the Gunwitch Method. Do a search on it on this board. It's a totally internal method. You put yourself in a sexual state then you do whatever ways to get her into a sexual state. You can use both internal and external game, or just internal. For me it's just internal like Canadian Catnip posted.

I use it almost daily. I go to coffee shop a lot with my laptop to do what I need to using there Wifi. Typically, there are a lot of women (young college grads mid 20's) there. I'm twice their age but using the mental sexual state method works. I get these in-their-prime women interested without even making any advances.

I just imagine a sexual encounter with them or even sometimes I just imagine a stripper dancing to sexy music and replay it over and over and mentally and emotionally I'm in a sexual state. Then I just do what Catnip does and talk in a carefree casual way about anything. I also internalize to myself and BELIEVE that I am the prize.

They end up attracted quickly. Like Canadian Catnip said women can sense it. A little NLP (basically very subtle sexual suggestive wording carefully inserted into the convo) will help to get her into the sexual state but I know a lot of people here don't subscribe to it and I've only used the internal only method but the internal method still works well on it's own.
 

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thanks guys for the responses..i find them to be really useful..i guess its just like the secret everything starts from your intention then you give them a divided attention so they have to work for you as things go along..

so now my question is how do you do the sex talk properly? like..how to properly give out sexual innuendos without crossing the line or becoming pushy? for example i've noticed guys that are really good at girls will just whisper something to the girl when there is an awkward vibe then she just cracks up..anyone has any advice experience or articles to share?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Franky Four Fingers said:
He ain't lying. It's called the Gunwitch Method.
I've been on this site for a while but never looked into that method until today. I do it a lot subconsciously and come to think of it... it works.
 
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