"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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D1ck only stands up when I touch it, 30% morning erections. It's only hard when I touch it, when chick sucks it forget it, even after an hour it's still soft. :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lay off the porn. Dont jerk for a week. Solid as a rock.

Dont jerk for two weeks. Solid as a bronze rod coated in steel. At this point how could you not be hard during a *******? lol. Plus the load you will have backed up will most definitely make the chick think "wow"
 

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^ Nice tip, but "solid as a rock", sorry to disapoint you OP, but that may not always be the case.

I used to not have morning erections and I stopped masturbating for one month and I still didn't have them. I wasn't even aware that this was an issue!! I also did not have spontaneous erections, for some reason that passed completely by me.

When I realized it I changed my diet. I try to meet my RDA for everything now. I also drink a lot of soy milk, which I think really helps. When i drink it I get lots of hardons! I couldn't believe it. It seems weird but it does, I have read that if you have zinc it increases your testosterone (link nsfw). You should be aware that there it tons of people telling that soy milk should be avoided if you are a man. I think that they are wrong. But it's up to you.
http://www.google.com/search?q=soy+...s=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a

I also have a dried ginger preserve (mackays) that makes me really horny. Ginger is safe. I have maca powder too which, again, really makes me horny. It didn't at first, but after stopping masturbating for a while, now it works. At first nothing worked at all. It took like a good month. The first half of the month I didn't exercise much and I had lots of stress from school. The second half I started to walk more, every day, went to the beach and it took me about 14 days from there. I don't smoke or drink. I had this Korean ginseng tea that is supposed to be an aphrodisiac, it didn't give me an erection, but I think that now it would, I think it helps, I've noticed that especially on my circulation. Goji berries improve your mood, which is good on it's own but it's also classed as an aphrodisiac. Yesterday I had an erection while I was half asleep that lasted a real long time, I was really horny which hadn't happened in years. I haven't masturbated in like 15 days, but before I did it like 3 times in 4 days. I will give it a few more days and maybe try it.

Oh, another thing that is really helpful is garlic. I put it in salads (I also eat lots of fruit?!) and it sometimes really works!!??

Here is the dried ginger preserve:
http://www.mackays.com/mackays_preserves.html
Maca powders there are many, try a local "natural shop" that's how it's called in portugal lol.
http://www.ilhwakoreanginseng.com/double_strength_ginseng_tea.html
^ That is the korean gineng tea

I think that you will be back to your natural self in no time, because at least you have 30% morning erections... Compared to none at all it's good.
 
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Get plenty of sleep.
 

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Being you 30 years old its not probable that the reason is your health.

Are you experiencing any stress? lot of people think that their life is somehow "normal" and dont realize they are stressed above tolerable levels.

Do you really like the girls you have sex with? or are you having sex with them out of boredom and seeking pleasure at all cost?
If your partner is not that great naked no surprise you can get hard, even if shes good looking but you dont find her attractive is the case.

A possible solution would be increase your hormones and libido so your body will overwrite your mind (in case of stress), meat, eggs and zinc will help.
Hitting the gym hard going heavy on compound exercise makes miracles, bench,squat and if you're confident enough deadlifts.
You're gonna be a rabid beast for the following hours.

And limit the stress to your body as much as possible, so avoid annoying situations,sleep well for at least 8 hours and dont underfeed yourself with diets.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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