"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to increase my running speed

cmk85

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Good moring guy's,

I would like to learn some excerises to increase my running speed because it would greatly benefit my perfomance in soccer matches.

I have 2 days of soccer training and 2 day's of gym training per week plus a soccermatch on sunday.

So what i would like to have are some gym excersizes to increase my running speed on short distances.

If you need more info please ask me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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donjuanjovi

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Hill sprints and sled drags my friend.
 

sh4rk b1t3

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You are all ignorant n00bs.

Heavy squats / calf raises does the job.

Better max strength = better power output = faster.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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You wanna get fast?
Sprint. Sprint. Sprint. Sprint. Sprint. Sprint.
Uphiil sprint. Sled sprints. Fartleks. Intervals.
Sprint. Sprint. Sprint.

Squats and calf raises are not going to help you get fast. They may help you get faster once you platue.

Here is my philosophy to running fast. It's how a 6'3'' 230 pound clydesdale like me can run 5:00 miles. It's how I can do 8 miles in 42 minutes.

If you want to run 100 meters fast then train to run 200 meters fast. If you want to run one mile fast then train to run 3 miles fast. When you'r exhausted, sprint. When you need to rest, run FAST. When you reach muscle failure, jog. And then SPRINT.

If i'm training to run a 15 mile race fast then my speed workouts will be 5-10 miles. If I'm training for 10k or 5k then my speed workouts will be shorter. If I'm training for a marathon they will be longer.

For instance if I'm training for something long distance then I might do a 5 mile fartlek run. I'll sprint for .25 miles and then run FAST for half a mile. Repeat until I've gone 5 miles. Maybe at the end (when I'm completely exhausted) I'll throw in a mile at MAXIMUM speed (might be a 5:30 pace or might be a 6:30 pace). OR maybe I'll find the steepest hill in town and run up at it full intensity.

Just get out there and sprint. Sprint till you puke. Getting fast is easy if you make your training hard. It's all about intensity.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Skilla_Staz

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Overdistance training is great.

Olympic Lifts, Squats, Plyometrics, Glute/Ham Raises, Sprinting, Running form work, Agility drills...

All of this stuff can be found on the internet in abundance.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Bust your ass in practice and you shouldn't need supplemental workouts!
 

dirtysanchez

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Getting fast is not all about busting your ass on the track till you puke and your muscles are flooded with lactic acid (which will if anything make you slower). Your sessions still need intensity and commitment, but getting fast is mostly about training smart rather than training hard.

Firstly, read the thread that Un-Aru posted it gives you some basic background information that explains the 4 basic ways in which you can increase your speed.

If you are really serious about getting fast then I recommend you visit www.charliefrancis.com/community which is one of the if not the best sprint training forums on the internet (Charlie Francis is one of the greatest sprint coaches ever - his ideologies are pretty much universally used in the world of sprinting - he has coached several sub 10 sprinters and worked with several well known sporting teams). I've learnt a heap of stuff from there without posting much, just searching and reading mainly. If you have some extra cash which you can fork out I thoroughly recommend you purchase some of his books and DVDs (Training for Speed and GPP DVD), you will not be disappointed.
 

cmk85

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Thank you very much for the info. ill get into it :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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