"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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get that massive weight off your back by not caring about girls anymore. I think it's the reason why you're depress. Stop going on this site cuz it will remind you that you need to get a girl now to be happy and that's just all bull****. Don't feel bad for yourself. You're just like all the AFC on here. The more time you spend on here the more AFC you get.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
You lack ambition.
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I kind of thought I had ambition, but I guess not. Maybe, I have to do more activities, such as fun walks.

Do you have advice for ambition? I guess, I should do hobbies and set goals. I need to believe in myself, and gain confidence over time. Take small steps to get better.


To Ethan: I agree I should be on here less...However shouldn't I use this as help? That is what this website is for. I could take breaks, from this website, but I certainly won't improve If I don't get help. I'll try and not care about girls as much.
 
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You yourself already have all the answer you need. You're just here because you want people to confirm your belief and validate you. What you need to do is to accept the position you're in and move on with your life. Sooner or later you'll realize how foolish you were to be the way you are right now. If it hasn't worked for you for 6 years, what make you think it'll work now??
 
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ethan350z said:
You yourself already have all the answer you need. You're just here because you want people to confirm your belief and validate you. What you need to do is to accept the position you're in and move on with your life. Sooner or later you'll realize how foolish you were to be the way you are right now. If it hasn't worked for you for 6 years, what make you think it'll work now??
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You're right, I need to take action. I need to quit talking my head off and just do it. Like Nike. Loser's whine and complain - winner's fvck the prom queen.

I already have all the knowledge.
 
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