"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to improve my game

escaleraroyal

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hey, just wanna know how i can improve my game.
I been sarging for already 3 years however I don't get laid often. Please tell me how i can improve? should i sarge with people who are good? but how can u tell if they are good? they could be lying or just exaggerating? should I do more reading? **** i read already a lot, shoulld i change my game? **** i changed my game so many times already, should i work out, **** i'm already muscular, should i get a job? **** i have a job too? what the **** is going on? i really want to know how to get laid more often.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Read the DJ Bible top to bottom. Read a little bit everyday. When you really want to improve your game you will do that.
 

HolyG

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sarging huh? Three years, huh? how many nights a week? regularly? how hard do you go in the damm paint? How many sets do you burn to the ground? How many approaches a night? How many approaches a day? How much effort do you put into the approaches? You just half-asing shi!t? You living and breathing the game till you get better, or you just walking around with your d!ck in your hand?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EvilAgenda

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Two questions.

1. Do you cross-analyze your approaches afterwards? Both successful and unsuccessful ones.

2. Every time you fail to close, do you ask yourself "hmm, ok, what did I learn from this?"

If you keep making the same mistakes and never learn from them, then improving your game will take longer than you want.
 

escaleraroyal

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EAngela,
I can get the numbers and dates,.....i just can close the deal when i take them to my room.
 
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