"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to impress a woman in front of her boyfriend.

Apostate

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The situation is quite complicated but I will go ahead and do my best at explaining it. You see, there is this girl I have had my eye on for a while, the problem being that she has a boyfriend, he happens to know that I like her, as well as her knowing that I like her. Tomorrow we are having a culture food night, for the members of our group, and I have gathered through some quick he-said-she-said, that she will be bringing her boyfriend. Is there anyway that I might act that would impress her, in front of her boyfriend?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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How to impress a woman in front of her boyfriend: Don't.

How to act in front of a woman with her boyfriend: Your usual great self.

The difference? You may think is minimal. The result however...
 

Borgon

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Just be yourself, whats the point of pretending to act like something you arent? Just be confident, charismatic and charming. Be the bigger man. Dont be intimidated, when you see them walk over and say hi, give her attention first then turn to the guy if you havent officially met him and extend a FIRM handshake introducing yourself.
 
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DaKidS3

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Don't go out of your way to impress her. Pretend like she's not their.
 

Patrick124

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drink more beer than her boyfriend.
cause everyone knows the guy with the biggest **** drinks the most.



hahaha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cablecow15

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thats not true i dont drink
and i should in the record books
for my package:D :D :D hahahahaha
 
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