"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to identify low self-confidence in chicks

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Bros, screw trying to up our own self-confidence, I say if it is puss we're all looking for we need to prey on the chicks with low self-confidence!

Think about it, these chicks need our attention to feel better about themselves, all we ask is if they suck it, '**** it, and duck it. Now all we have to do is figure out which ones are running low in self-confidence.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Haha maybe...could you have worded that in a more sleazy way?

Confident girls need to be sexed too though, and they usually seem to care less about being viewed as a slut because they're confident and proud of who they are.
 

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Yeah, slaog hit the nail on the head for practical reasons to avoid these girls. Also tune into Fatal Attraction and imagine where HER self-confidence is at.

The main reason though is that if you specifically seek out low-confident low-esteem girls because they are easier for you then it sounds like you run a good chance of creating a vicious cycle that feeds into your own low self-esteem.
 

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the piano master, pimps use this tactic to recruit ho's. First you have to be completely confident in your self and in order to have an eye for prey you must become the preditor. You also must be strong minded to spot weak minded people. In nature eagles hunt weak injured prey, their vision is thier number one hunting tool. Your vision will be your number one hunting tool. So in order to spot a low confidence woman, look at what kind of car she drives, what shes wearing, how well is her make up, how well is her hair done? Is she smiling? Does she walk with her head down? What kind of friends does she have? Where does she work? Does she stand in the corner with her friends at the club? Does she need attention? How in shape is her body? Does she got small breast? Look for cue's that scream weak/low status.

An easy way to spot low confidence women is by going on okcupid.com and plentyoffish.com. Dont actually talk to the women on the site. But look at thier pictures, look at the kind of stuff thier interested. And make notes on what to look for. Theres beautiful women with low confidence too, these women are usually the ones who like animals because they dont get attention from human beings. You can find many beautiful low confidence women at the grocery store, because they like to eat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hot chicks are confident, fat chicks aren't. why do you only want to nail fat chicks?

Mind boggling
 

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slaog said:
Stay away from chicks with low self confidence. They're a nightmare and their low self confidence is likely to lead to other bad things, like bad mood, poor hygiene, being untrustworthy and generally have all sorts of mental issues.
I dont think the OP was talking about making them your gfs, or even your friends.

Most low selfsteem girls can be identified after talking for 30 secs. I think a very easy way to spot one is by giving them a compliment, if they get embarrased then they are low selfesteem.
 

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hot chicks are confident, fat chicks aren't. why do you only want to nail fat chicks?

Mind boggling
Wrong wrong, hot chicks can be a lot more insecure.

However, fact is, ALL girls are insecure and have low confidence. Some moreso than others, but all can be manipulated.

Low confidence has it's advantages though..
 

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Ease said:
Wrong wrong, hot chicks can be a lot more insecure.

However, fact is, ALL girls are insecure and have low confidence. Some moreso than others, but all can be manipulated.

Low confidence has it's advantages though..
as wrong as my blatant ( and purposefully ) generalization is, how low do you have to go to try and leverage someones insecurities for your gain?

Enjoy the fatties and mental cases. That just means more worthwhile hot women for people like me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Piano Master said:
Your thoughts...
They're easy to spot and I push them away fast. Have fun with them. High quality - independent, that's how I roll.

Anyway, ask how boyfriends have treated her. When she starts talking about how they all treat her like crap and men are all *******s....

.....100% chance you've got a very low confidence girl.

Confident girls will (when chasing, even in the first few minutes) will try to attract you with things besides sex and "boo hoo I'm a victim/doormat". You have to play long-ball with these girls but it's well worth the effort. For example, they won't biatch about other girls in your life. In fact, they'll be proud you get so much attention as well as excited you spend time with her considering how much competition she's facing.

Keep going after the low-hanging fruit. That's that much more good stuff for me.
 
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r0cky said:
I dont think the OP was talking about making them your gfs, or even your friends.

Most low selfsteem girls can be identified after talking for 30 secs. I think a very easy way to spot one is by giving them a compliment, if they get embarrased then they are low selfesteem.
You know what I'm talking about, bro.
 
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Ease said:
Wrong wrong, hot chicks can be a lot more insecure.

However, fact is, ALL girls are insecure and have low confidence. Some moreso than others, but all can be manipulated.

Low confidence has it's advantages though..
Do tell, bro. That is what this thread is all about. :rockon:
 
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