"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to hook up with an older girl?

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How to hook up with an older girl?

I need some advice on how to hook up with a girl that is older then me by one year. She is junior and I am a soph in high school. I wanted to hook up with her but I found out that she goes for older guys. Now but she want to introduce me to her sister. I didn’t see her friend yet, don’t know when. But what I know I want to hook up with her. Any suggestions on how I can do that, something I can say or do???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NotaGoatLover

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.....No difference....You use your same techniques....... I've had a woman of like 22 or 23 Like me.......a lot.......
 

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i went out with a junior when i was a freshman.... ah good memories. I got mad respect then i moved :(.
Well i met her at a dance tho. Its easy just treat them like any other girl and act like the age difference doesnt mean anything.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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im 17 i got head from a 25 year old an hour ago. Lie to her. If you cant lie, than just DONT LET YOUR AGE BE A WEAKNESS - MAKE IT A STRENGTH. If you are PROUD of your age, and all you have accomplished in your time so far, she will be to.
 
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