"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to hold the Trump Card in dating?

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Jack Hensy

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When I date I always get girls with a slight IL. I work my butt off trying to raise their IL. I read the don juan bible and nothing works for me. All I can think of is thatits my looks and my height that just makes me average looking.
I had a date the other week and she kept complimenting me over and over and telling me how hot I was and how much she wanted to get to know me. I thought her IL was high.
We talked sex the entire three dates and I didn't kiss her on the first date because I thought she was being a tease. She got mad at me and wanted to know why I didn't kiss her.(the challenge). The second date lots of touching, kissing and compliments. But she said she couldn't read me since I was hot an cold. Not texting her a lot etc. Being aloof. Spinning plates. The 3rd date I went to her house for drinks and sex. We had a great time watching the football game, eating, laughing. She was all over me and was a freak. (Porn star freak) Of course, she dumped me a week later for another guy.
She would have been a fun chick to bang for a few months so I was disappointed she found another guy to get her freak on with..lol.
She wasn't perfect since she was an online slightly chubby chick, pretty face----but a good fvck.
My problem is I am always passed over by girls. Maybe its POF. They will date me for a while until someone better comes along. Does this happen to most guys? It's a self esteem killer and I spin plates all the time. The girls I pull are 7's. Rarely 8's.
I am 6ft, attractive, hold my own "ok" in a bar or online. Most girls say I am cute and I have been with a lot girls sexually--not much relationship-wise because they seem to swing like monkeys from one vine to the next. I just accept that each time I have sex with a girl it will be my last since she will eventually move on. It sux.
How do I hold the trump card so I don't lose women all the time? It's kind of annoying.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just screw them and have a good time. When they are ready for something more they will ask. You are over thinking like a woman. For better quality women you might try meet-ups. Also escalate faster.
 
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I don't give a fvck. She was a ***** anyway.
The only reason this sosuave website was designed is 'to help guys get laid and protect them from being played by women." If this site didn't exists men would be raging animals like myself when a chick wants her cake and eat it too.
 
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Jack Hensy said:
I don't give a fvck. She was a ***** anyway.
The only reason this sosuave website was designed is 'to help guys get laid and protect them from being played by women." If this site didn't exists men would be raging animals like myself when a chick wants her cake and eat it too.
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SoSuave does not exist to coddle boys behaving like little girls and thinking that they get a pass for doing so.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tictac you have skull and bones which makes me suspect you are a young guy. Save your fvcking insults punk.
 
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Jack I've been a member of this site for several months and honestly, I haven't seen anyone act like you have on here. Just chill out man, I understand girls IL doesn't go up with you, and that's frustrating. If you really want to turn the tides, you should instead listen to feedback instead of attacking everyone. I'm sure I'm not the only one to think, based solely on your attacks of others here, YOU ARE A CHILD mentally. With this super defensive attitude, any girl is going to ditch you fast. Girls and women alike both want a MAN.

To be attractive personality-wise, you gotta be slow to react with anger. Take a deep breath, take a walk, or just give it some time before responding to others, men and women both, in sexual and non-sexual instances and I PROMISE YOU, things will get better.
 
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Waking up man everything is cool. You are right, I need to chill out. Just need to get my head straight and regain focus.
A good run should take the edge off.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like DrBeard is back.
 
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