"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to hold eye contact with hot chicks

avrilishot

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I used to get intimidated by chicks sometimes. Just because of there looks. But lately I have been doing actually pretty good. Before this week I was good at eye contact but sloppy with the girls that I liked. well the technique that I do is whenever I talk to someone I picture my self lookingat me in there view. For some reason I find it to actually work for me. I field tested this for the past three days. Its pretty good.

So next time you go talk to a hottie look her staright in the eyes and picture yourself looking back in your eyes or at yourself. Some how I think it distracts you from being nervous because your focused on trying to picture yourself. So try this on a girl or actually anyone. its works great. Plus it shows you can hold great eye contact. hope this makes sense.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mizty

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Lol, besides: Damn, I look good through her eyes! :)

- Mizty
 

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I look between their eyes instead of directly at their eyes.

To them, they still think you're looking right at them. It used to take the pressure off of me. Give it a shot sometime.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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killbill

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Originally posted by eps
I look between their eyes instead of directly at their eyes.

To them, they still think you're looking right at them. It used to take the pressure off of me. Give it a shot sometime.
hey thats good to ill try it today.
 

shiningshadow

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I can only focus on one eye, so I think I'll try the in between thing.
 
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