"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How To Have Something To Say ALL The Time

Insurreto

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Hi, guys.
I'm new on the board. Founf this awesome forum via The Book Of Pook, which is quite famous in the Pick-Up community of Sweden.
I few weeks back, me and my awesome wingman/friend came up with a great method to learn how to always have something interesting/funny/fascinating to say. Here goes:
"Wouldn't it be awesome if..."
Yep, that's the name of the game. It's awesome to do when you're two. I.e. I point at something in the surroundings, like a brick wall, a traffic light, whatever. And he goes "Wouldn't it be ****ing awesome if..." and then he continous on the subject.
Rules:
  • Stay ON TOPIC, otherwise you'll come across as schizofrenic (is that a word in English, I hope so :D )
  • Speak with passion!

Tips:
  • Start of with facts, i.e. the traffic lights would have pictures. The brick wall would look like that.
  • Then talk about opnions, i.e. I think it would be awesome, cool, whatever positive attitude you want.
  • Last and foremost: Talk about feelings, i.e. because that would make me feel/I'd feel X if it was true/blablabla.

I hope you guys understand. Work on it and you'll never have a dull conversation again! Remember, speak with passion!

Much love from Sweden,
- Insurreto
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Darth

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Yes, the "Book of Pook" is a landmark piece because it is so persuasive and by the time you're done, you're in a completely different mindset. Everything makes so much more sense. It literally changed my life.

Good tip BTW.
 

Cashew

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Ha, this is a great tip!

Reminded me of a conversation I had with a girl that started by "wouldn't it be cool if you could turn other things invisible?" We went through all the hilarious pranks you could play on people and ways to abuse the power.
 

BeyondCharm

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Having a sincere interest to share with her who you are and to learn about who she is can in many cases be enough to rile the curiosity in yourself to ask questions, relate to her stories and provide plenty of discussion topics.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Warrior74

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My 7 year old daughter does this... "Hey daddy, what if....." and we go on for hours talking about any and everything.
 

thedol

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This is a good one, I downloaded the book of pook after reading this. It's so simple but it is definetely something that can be easily done and said and become a proper convo and being interesting and imaginative at the same...being fun!
 
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