"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to have good POF conversations?

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I got someone who wanted to meet me on POF and she looked pretty good....

Here's the conversation so far:

Me: It said you want to meet me. Is this true?
Her: hello there ! I hit meet me because you look good for me :) how are you tonight?
Me: I'm good. You? What do you do for fun?
Her: Like hanging out :) may i ask your name?

Then I told her my name and asked hers. The conversation is active as we speak.

Does anyone have tips for creating good conversations. I always have the problem that my conversations die down and I never know what to say. I'm naturally extremely introverted and not very talkative.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stovepipe

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Conversations come naturally. I tend to read their profile and go from there, or ask them something about one of their pics.
 
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