"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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trans_am17

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Theres this HB at my work and I know she already has a BF but she's always showing signs of interest with me. She jokes around and tends to hang around me alot. How should I handle this girl? What it be wrong to go for her number since she has a BF?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i remember reading somewhere that women are like monkeys. they hang onto one branch until there is a better one to jump onto(branch = men). besides, its not like they are getting married ; )
 

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For both of you maybe they are just flirts. Back off of them. Forget about them. PLenty of fish in the sea. How would you like it if you were their boyfriends and they went to some other dude. Respect their bfs. Scacity is a myth.
 

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Originally posted by trans_am17
What it be wrong to go for her number since she has a BF?
Personally, i think it is dishonorable to go for a girl who's taken. However, you should not let other people dictate your morals. Alpha Males make their own decisions. I suggest that you go with what your Alpha Male's natural instincts say.
There really isnt such a thing as "wrong."
"Wrong" is something that developed from unnatural things utilized to CONTROL people: things like religion.
Clear your mind of unnatural things and decide what you want.
 

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dude- i'd back off.
theres something called social ettiquette where i live.

i've had a gf for 7months and although im no DJ, i know how frustrating it is when guys start hitting on her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by trans_am17
Theres this HB at my work and I know she already has a BF but she's always showing signs of interest with me. She jokes around and tends to hang around me alot. How should I handle this girl? What it be wrong to go for her number since she has a BF?
If a girl is flirting with men while she has a boyfriend the boyfriend is not satisfying her.
If the boyfriend is not satisfying her then he doesn't care enough to satisfy her or he can't satisfy her.
If a boy is uncapable of satisfying a girl then he doesn't deserve to be with her.
You can't steal a girl you can just provide her a better branch to hold on to:D .
 
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