Do you love her?
Do you see yourself together with her ten years down the road?
Can you handle being faithful and monogamous with her?
Will you still love her when you seeher the next morning with no makeup and morning breath?
If she is sick, would you take care of her?
If you say no to any of these you're not into her, and your anxiety is telling you that you don't want her in that way.
If you have anxiety and apprehension about meeting her parents then more than likely you're not at the same relationship stage that she's at.
Is it BAD to want to present someone to their parents after one month?
Well, no one made any rules about this. And to me, it would seem weird if she doesn't present me to her parents, etc and present me as her BF.
I would be more worried if she did the opposite action.
It seems to me that you feel there is something wrong with her presenting you to the people she feels are important in her life.
It seems that maybe, just maybe you've taken some of the dating "advice" in forums just a little too wholeheartedly and literally, as if some of the opinions are gospel truths that are universal and can never be refuted or disproved.
Maybe....
Truth is, most of the stuff you read are general observations, and you have to think as an individual with your own set of unique circumstances. And accept the fact that while women are oriented to certain behaviors, there are always other factors that prevent any one from drawing a be all end all conclusion. There are guidelines and observations to help you make your own judgement, but ultimately you're responsible for your actions and the consequences you wil face.
Because approaching things from your own individual standpoint and trusting your own judgement is usually very hard for many of us.
I understand,howver, be aware that the main thing you have to pay attention to is your innner emotion about any action you are taking.
If you feel anxiety and apprehension, then ...DUH! this means you don't like this and don't want it!
My gut reactions are that a) you think this chick is jumping the gun with you, and you're not ready. Her actions may make you feel like she's not in love with you (IF you've been giving her "Im not BOYFRIEND MATERIAL! I just want sex!!" she may not be thinking about presenting you to everyone. But if you're Mr. Love and Romance, and you're not sincere, guess what you are???), she's in love with love and romance and the notion of being in love. Perhaps you've been leading her on to make sure you can secure the poon for whenever you want? Perhaps you're being romantic and affectionate? And she sees this as you being in love? But maybe you're not?
b ) you just like banging her, you never thought of an LTR with this chick, but you're hooked on the poon, and now don't want to be led into an LTR with a chick you just want to bang.
Truthfully, if you're really into her, you would have NO DOUBTS WHATSOEVER.
You wouldn't think twice about meeting her loved ones, in fact , you would be touched and eager to make those connnections because that's what you do when you're in love.
OK, so maybe you don't want to just bang her, and you do want to be her BF, maybe she is NOT jumping the gun with you. Maybe she feels that after one month, and all the intimacy you've had, this chick turns out be an A! Class Act, well cultured, considerate, and well mannered girl. Who feels it's the decent thing to do to present her new BF to the world.
Maybe you're the one who's jumpint the gun here, assuming because of this behavior (which is perfectly normal ) automatically MEANS she's thinking "MARRIAGE TIME!".
So let's get back to your question. Which is completely trivial and has nothing to do with any of this.
This has to do with how YOU feel ("OMG! Meeting her parents MEANS MARRIAGE NOW! This instant! I'm a dead man!"), and what she''s thinking about this action ("I want the people I care about know that I'm not a slut, and feel that it is proper, considerate, shows class, and good taste by presenting my new BF to my friends and family. Because I feel it's the proper thing to do.").
