"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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We are not in relationship but really close to it. She sometimes tells me about her feelings but I haven't told anything.

So today she said that her ex called her couple of days ago and now she isn't sure about her feelings, also what she wants from us and feelings towards me and other bs. I played it very cool, didn't react at all.

Tomorrow she comes over to my house and of course this means a lot of sex. Problem is here, I want to maintain her interest level and my power or end things my way, not to wait when she decides to end this.
So my idea is to f*ck her and then talk about this. I thought I will tell her that if she wants to contact with her ex again and she is not sure about us, then she shouldn't waste my time and she can leave.
Or just f*ck her and not to speak about it?

What do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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F*ck her brains out as often as possible and don't get involved in her feelings. Treat her only as a FB until she sorts things out at some time in her future.
 
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Is she the one who wants a relationship and you're holding back? Women love to come up with mysterious "other guys" to try and spark a territorial streak in the guys they are with, so the men will give in and upgrade the relationship. Only a fool wouldn't know who they want to be with, so telling you is just an attempt at playing games. Be mysterious and vague, one day hinting you want her and another pushing her away. It will drive her wild with desire for you.
 
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You are over thinking this. Just keep fvcking her... if she is fvcking another dude, so what, go fvck other women.

If you WANT a relationship with this women then really all you have to do is ask her what she meant by her not being sure about you... get her to to say that she wants to be exclusive. You have to get her to say SHE wants this, then you get to put conditions of the relationship.

She is trying to get you to ask for exclusivity, so she will have the power in the relationship. If you do, then you will be sowing the seeds of the end of this relationship. She has to believe that she wants this more than you do, otherwise she will ALWAYS wonder if she could do better... that is hypergamy and that is women... they are all like that. And even when you are in a relationship always remember ALWAYS REMEMBER and say to yourself "She's not my girl; it's only my turn."
 
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Who gives a fvck what she does. You ain't dating this broad exclusively. Fvck her good. Whatever she does shouldn't matter to you. If you bring up feelings that's g4y as sh1t. When you stop getting vag go no contact.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So I shouldn't say anything and ignore these things?
 
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