Glassguy
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One of the PMS I received from a member on here got me thinking. Most guys will get into this situation, especially in today's dating world.
He is in a situation where this chick he is fvcking is also seeing other people as he found out from her recent social media post about going on a lavishing date recently.
This was my response to him. Now consider that I am definitely a rotation guy, so keep that in mind. But with a rotation comes options, and you guys should always have those options at least at your disposal while in a relationship.....just in case. But how to handle women in certain situations should not change IMO just because the parameters of the situation is different. It is still a man dealing with a woman in a typical situation that will come up if you date and interact with a lot of women.
So my response to him is this:
"You have 2 options:
If it bothers you, just ghost her. Tell her something came up and you cant make it.
If it doesnt bother you that she might be fvcking other dudes, keep fvcking her and understand that is who she is (and how most single women are actually).
For one you dont know that she is fvcking him. He may be a beta and just spending money on her. You will be surprised at how often this happens.
For example: One of my current plates goes on other dates. Its not often but it does happen. Its more of a FWB deal. She goes out, gets a free meal, has fun socializing but she fvcks me. Its an understanding that if she goes out with someone more than a couple of times and becomes genuinely interested in him (and fvcks him), its ok. She is free to pursue that. But she also understands that I see other people and if she leaves our agreement to pursue something with someone, chances are she wont get back in with me.
Its amazing at how some of these dudes act. $50 dinners, drinks, they blow her phone up, she comes and fvcks me. I didnt spend a dime, no dates (other than our initial drinks date). I dont keep close tabs on her because this has been an arrangement for months and there is some trust built between us. She is a very career driven person but she is a woman. She needs attention and validation which she gets from the betas. She also needs sex which she gets from me.
So if you are actively fvcking her now, which side do you want to be on? The side of the guy spending money and showering her with attention or the guy blowing her back out after she leaves that date and that poor schmuck doesnt even get a good night kiss?
No disrespect, but you have a delusional vision when it comes to dating these days. Your still thinking very blue pill instead of red pill.
The fact is this: If a woman is single and she is attractive and has anything going for her.....someone is fvcking her. Someone has the contract on that @ss where she might date around but she ultimately ends up at his place fvcking him.
A smart man, an alpha, knows this. He doesnt care because she is fulfilling her attention needs from other men and fulfilling her sexual needs by getting railed by him.
So until you know for certain that she is fvcking other people, that is when you must make your decision. At that point if it bothers you that bad, go find other chicks.
Thats my advice. I dont throw away perfectly good pvssy but I also have options so I dont have to deal with the emotional mess that comes along with being confused about where you stand with someone.
One of the things you will hear me say is this- "If you are confused, she isnt".
Happy hunting fellas.
He is in a situation where this chick he is fvcking is also seeing other people as he found out from her recent social media post about going on a lavishing date recently.
This was my response to him. Now consider that I am definitely a rotation guy, so keep that in mind. But with a rotation comes options, and you guys should always have those options at least at your disposal while in a relationship.....just in case. But how to handle women in certain situations should not change IMO just because the parameters of the situation is different. It is still a man dealing with a woman in a typical situation that will come up if you date and interact with a lot of women.
So my response to him is this:
"You have 2 options:
If it bothers you, just ghost her. Tell her something came up and you cant make it.
If it doesnt bother you that she might be fvcking other dudes, keep fvcking her and understand that is who she is (and how most single women are actually).
For one you dont know that she is fvcking him. He may be a beta and just spending money on her. You will be surprised at how often this happens.
For example: One of my current plates goes on other dates. Its not often but it does happen. Its more of a FWB deal. She goes out, gets a free meal, has fun socializing but she fvcks me. Its an understanding that if she goes out with someone more than a couple of times and becomes genuinely interested in him (and fvcks him), its ok. She is free to pursue that. But she also understands that I see other people and if she leaves our agreement to pursue something with someone, chances are she wont get back in with me.
Its amazing at how some of these dudes act. $50 dinners, drinks, they blow her phone up, she comes and fvcks me. I didnt spend a dime, no dates (other than our initial drinks date). I dont keep close tabs on her because this has been an arrangement for months and there is some trust built between us. She is a very career driven person but she is a woman. She needs attention and validation which she gets from the betas. She also needs sex which she gets from me.
So if you are actively fvcking her now, which side do you want to be on? The side of the guy spending money and showering her with attention or the guy blowing her back out after she leaves that date and that poor schmuck doesnt even get a good night kiss?
No disrespect, but you have a delusional vision when it comes to dating these days. Your still thinking very blue pill instead of red pill.
The fact is this: If a woman is single and she is attractive and has anything going for her.....someone is fvcking her. Someone has the contract on that @ss where she might date around but she ultimately ends up at his place fvcking him.
A smart man, an alpha, knows this. He doesnt care because she is fulfilling her attention needs from other men and fulfilling her sexual needs by getting railed by him.
So until you know for certain that she is fvcking other people, that is when you must make your decision. At that point if it bothers you that bad, go find other chicks.
Thats my advice. I dont throw away perfectly good pvssy but I also have options so I dont have to deal with the emotional mess that comes along with being confused about where you stand with someone.
One of the things you will hear me say is this- "If you are confused, she isnt".
Happy hunting fellas.