"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to handle ppl that always say "i am right and you are wrong"

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anonymousguy

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Hi guys,

How do you handle people in general that always want to prove that they are "right". Usually I just give them their "right" because otherwise I have a big discussion and in the end it is always that they'll "win" the discussion. I just give them their victory otherwise I'll waste a lot of time debating in things that are not important to me.

But how do you guys solve it? What are the long term strategies here? What's the best way to put those people on their place?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damian

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I've personally used this method:

Start cracking C&F on them. Treat them like a little brother and make it a big joke. Have a laugh and make it fun, not angry. And always keep a smile on, it loosens the tension.
 
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"That's fine, I'll let you think you're right..." ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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