What would you recommend doing to handle other guys trying to **** block you. Or even worse going after girls your specifically into to challenge your alpha-male status. How should I react to the girl when she's using the scenario against you as well.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
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How to handle other guys?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Captain Harlock
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Depends on the guys I guess. If a girl is trying to make you jealous you just ignore her, don't give her that which she wants.
Ya, I know to ignore the girl, but more importantly how do you handle a guy trying to challenge your alpha status. Do you compete back with him or ignore him and flirt with other girls? Not competing for the girl may seem beta, but it may also show insecurity? Show him a little controlled aggression or act indifferent?
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i remember a few years back when i was livin' up the single life... i ran into a situation like this.
i took this girl to a bar/grill that i liked... great food. anyways, the girl was really hot - to the point where anywhere she goes, guys hit on her. so we sit at the bar and are having drinks and eatin and havin fun.. and i excuse myself to go to the bathroom. i had noticed there was a group of 3-4 guys sitting at a table behind us... now keep in mind, im only in the bathroom for a couple minutes. yet as im walking back to my hot chick, these jerkoffs moved from their table to where i was. i kid you not, one was literally sitting in my seat next to her, with his chump friends sitting next to them.
without hesitation, i walked right up behind the dumbass in my seat, very firmly put my hand on his shoulder and neck and said, "Youre in my seat." and stared at him, HOPING he would make something of it. him and his friends said sorry and left. after i sat back down in my seat, she gave me a big kiss and we both laughed about it.
so you gotta ask yourself, whats the guy doing to you?
do you know him personally or are these guys strangers?
if you see a girl you wanna get to know more, go for it. if shes with her boyfriend, obviously its a bad idea. if shes with a guy shes fvcking, not a great idea either.
if shes just with friends, then you need to be respectful of her company.. to a certain degree. you dont owe them anything, but be courteous. introduce yourself and do what you gotta do to get to know your girl.
now, if youre getting to know a cute girl and some random douche butts in and tries to **** block...
first off, you definitely dont owe him anything. be the bigger man dont stoop down in level if he resorts to childplay. let him come off as stupid. take it on a case by case basis, but honestly just be the better man.
secondly, watch how the girl reacts to this. if she gets excited about the idea that you and this other guy might start fighting over her, or tries to egg it on... NEXT. not worth it.
what you shoot for in a situation like this, is that the girl is so into you that when the random tool tries to butt in, she is just as annoyed at him as you are. that when he gets the hint and walks away, you both look at eachother and say, "man.. what an idiot!"
-SLB
i took this girl to a bar/grill that i liked... great food. anyways, the girl was really hot - to the point where anywhere she goes, guys hit on her. so we sit at the bar and are having drinks and eatin and havin fun.. and i excuse myself to go to the bathroom. i had noticed there was a group of 3-4 guys sitting at a table behind us... now keep in mind, im only in the bathroom for a couple minutes. yet as im walking back to my hot chick, these jerkoffs moved from their table to where i was. i kid you not, one was literally sitting in my seat next to her, with his chump friends sitting next to them.
without hesitation, i walked right up behind the dumbass in my seat, very firmly put my hand on his shoulder and neck and said, "Youre in my seat." and stared at him, HOPING he would make something of it. him and his friends said sorry and left. after i sat back down in my seat, she gave me a big kiss and we both laughed about it.
so you gotta ask yourself, whats the guy doing to you?
do you know him personally or are these guys strangers?
if you see a girl you wanna get to know more, go for it. if shes with her boyfriend, obviously its a bad idea. if shes with a guy shes fvcking, not a great idea either.
if shes just with friends, then you need to be respectful of her company.. to a certain degree. you dont owe them anything, but be courteous. introduce yourself and do what you gotta do to get to know your girl.
now, if youre getting to know a cute girl and some random douche butts in and tries to **** block...
first off, you definitely dont owe him anything. be the bigger man dont stoop down in level if he resorts to childplay. let him come off as stupid. take it on a case by case basis, but honestly just be the better man.
secondly, watch how the girl reacts to this. if she gets excited about the idea that you and this other guy might start fighting over her, or tries to egg it on... NEXT. not worth it.
what you shoot for in a situation like this, is that the girl is so into you that when the random tool tries to butt in, she is just as annoyed at him as you are. that when he gets the hint and walks away, you both look at eachother and say, "man.. what an idiot!"
-SLB
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You can't really control every situation but you can definitely try your damned near best. AMOG'ing, you'll find, is just when a guy is being overfriendly and highly energetic with you so that he'll push you out of set.Trident said:What would you recommend doing to handle other guys trying to **** block you. Or even worse going after girls your specifically into to challenge your alpha-male status. How should I react to the girl when she's using the scenario against you as well.
The only real way to out-amog a guy is if your energy is higher and your frame is stronger. It's all about frame control.
Just remember, don't lose your cool, don't become upset, I've been out-amog'd before, and its just a competitive sport. Try your best, NOT every set will have amogs.
-Kevin
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I usually knee them in the balls and when they leave to get medical attention I say, "looks like his vagina started hurting and he needed treatment right away."
Some girls love it, laugh, and we leave immediately for some afternoon delight.
Others look at me in disgust and leave then she changes her mind a few hours later and we go for some afternoon delight.
my dbag friend: hey desert I'm gonna steal your girl here haha hey you dont wanna be with this loser!
me: haha yea good point man. by the way how's your syphillis doing? you should really get that checked out bro.
Some girls love it, laugh, and we leave immediately for some afternoon delight.
Others look at me in disgust and leave then she changes her mind a few hours later and we go for some afternoon delight.
Usually here I make fun of them.sozzz said:what about your friends try to be a smartass at you while your girl is with you? i mean if you put him down, he'll be a little girl and feel like crap..
what do you do in this situation?
my dbag friend: hey desert I'm gonna steal your girl here haha hey you dont wanna be with this loser!
me: haha yea good point man. by the way how's your syphillis doing? you should really get that checked out bro.
dude i hate it when they start touching you repeatedly that gets pretty nerve wrecking...
just be nice to them I remember this one line worked wonders for me an AMOG Destroy line you say "hey nice t shirt ...i liked wearing that back in high school" suddenly everybody stops tripping and they leave you alone. its like a secret password to an alpha club or something.
just be nice to them I remember this one line worked wonders for me an AMOG Destroy line you say "hey nice t shirt ...i liked wearing that back in high school" suddenly everybody stops tripping and they leave you alone. its like a secret password to an alpha club or something.