"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to handle LTR's exactly

monad

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Can not find info on this except Men are from Mars women are from venus type of stuff.

I am wondering how much time should be spent with her. After the first month, second month etc. How often should you date? Talk on phone? Have sex? Hang with her friends?
Should the negging continue? Bust her balls type of flirtation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KontrollerX

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In addition to the thread that was linked about Rollo's succesful marriage I'm pretty sure the DJ bible has an entire sub section on this.
 

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Dude, just go with the flow. Just let her know when u need your own time, and make urself available when u feel its time she deserves ur attention. The sex and the telephone calls crap will come with instinct. Enjoy the relationship, dont think too much into it. Have fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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