How to handle indifference?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Styr

Don Juan

Jul 31, 2015

Thought it is about time I become more successful in life and with women.

Found some useful videos and lectures on various topics - some more useful than others. One of the presenters, Jared Laurence, in particular seems to be very reasonable.

It is some 57 minutes long, but I did enjoy it a lot (among his other videos).
What do you think? Have his ideas been presented here in more detail with peoples experiences?

http://www.the21convention.com/video/handling-indifference/

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.