how to handle good girl

[omega420]

she leave her city 4 me (now living in hostel), she love me (and very beautiful), i am 100% sure about her honesty BUT she dont like sex (lol) whats this. she loves me since 4 years, in fact she cannot live without me, she DO NOT have a single friend without me. second thing i dont spend money on her.
i dont have anything to give her (hehehehe). she is good person...never tricks or lie. she never play, punctual about time everything is good except one thing, she is also reluctent to kissing, (though i kissed her many time in last 3 years and she also enjoyed still i have to start from the begining everytime i meet her)
how to make a way?
i never act like a wuss in front of her, i have already read much on seduction, and act upon it.
i act cool, stay in control, confident, i am busy, everything is doing well,
what should i do? dont tell me to dump her because she trust me and its bcoz of me she is here...in my city
do u have any solution for a good, honest and trustworthy gal, who is not playing with me but reluctent to sex perhaps because of tredition and wrong upbring and culture and religeon.
come here in this forum with great expectation.

 

[08aisaac]

If she has loved you for 4 years, maybe you should marry her. THere is more then sex in a relationship, but if you marry her you can have sex.

 

[omega420]

thanks for a quick reply.

If she has loved you for 4 years, maybe you should marry her. THere is more then sex in a relationship

yes she wants to marry me. and i also like her. most probably we r going to marry soon.
i am getting much fun, love and happiness with her. this is true. thats why we r together since 4 years,

but if you marry her you can have sex.

hahaha
actually even if she doesnt alow me to have sex before marriage i wont mind. but many times when we r alone and there is possibility for little bit enjoyment (a kiss) she resist.
and after marriage also this can happen.
i dont have any complaint about her except her too much resistence for small things.
(and she dont have any option without me)
she dont even think that if she keep resisting i may find someone else.

 

[08aisaac]

I would get married to someone like that. Where are you from. Your accent is cool.

 

[omega420]

im from india.
thank u for reply ...
see...i'm not after getting sex hehehehe (that doesnt mean sex is bad) but after 2, 3 years it dawn upon me that she is too much resistent (not because she is playing ...not at all)

i thought and still im thinking is she wrong type? (hehehehe)

ok...that too i can accept but i am trying for better way. hope u r getting.

actually i didnt had any problem with her but after reading ross and many book i analized and thought i have a serious problem. thats why asking u.

as a person she is very good.

 

[08aisaac]

must suck. I would try and convince her that there is nthing wrong with having sex since you both love each other.

 

[omega420]

I would try and convince her that there is nthing wrong with having sex since you both love each other.

believe me ... she is mature means there is no need to convince her and we also talk many time on this topic in very good mood, with humor...but when the real time comes she litrally runs.

must suck.

yes. u can understand.

she promis not to ressist and its not fake (believe) but i think her brain or body is deeply programmed for this.

she unconciously behaves like this eventhough she trust me.

 

[libre]

Dear sir

We are worlds apart in mores and relationship practices. I think you must be prudent with the advice that you will get from this site. If you are still in India and/or frequenting an Indian «girl», you must be carefull with the moves that you make.

What is accepted and frequent behavior for occidental men and women is quite far from the acceptable behavior for persons from your part of the world and from your cultures.

In Canada, I would not think of marying a woman without having had sex with her before hand. It is a quite common and accepted» behavior for canadian men and women; how is it for persons from your culture however? Don't ruin your and her futures from unadvised behavior for your culture by adopting occidental values.

 

[omega420]

thank u libre.

We are worlds apart in mores and relationship practices. I think you must be prudent with the advice that you will get from this site. If you are still in India and/or frequenting an Indian «girl», you must be carefull with the moves that you make.

yes. but i am not after sex. i want advice about how to handle good but most resistence girl.

What is accepted and frequent behavior for occidental men and women is quite far from the acceptable behavior for persons from your part of the world and from your cultures.

yes this is right...we r having much much different culture...hence my question is also little bit different (atleast i think so)

In Canada, I would not think of marying a woman without having had sex with her before hand. It is a quite common and accepted» behavior for canadian men and women;

no..no im not asking 4 sex before marrage...

how is it for persons from your culture however?

in india it is possible but in MY case imppossible and i also not forcing.

but what is my problem ...that she loves me, likes me, honest with me and still having touch phobia ... (...lol...dont take literally)

and i am afraid that after marrage also she will behave like this.
but for a small problem like this i am not going to dump her but my firends (hehehehee) this situation is ...well i dont have right word.
means ...i can not cheat her, i can not dump her, and always i have to start from the biginning for even small things like kissing her.
OK this too is ok
but sometimes it make angree because you r in flow in very high and loving vibrations and suddenly there is a huge obstacle. i mean its like a beautiful temple but not having foundation hehehehee.

something is missing.

(anyway loved ur reply)

 

[libre]

Hello

I think we must be carefull about the suggestions and advice that we must give you as the implications could be quite dramatic for you and for your girlfriend.

I recently read a biography about Ghandi. It doesn't really matter, however I'm curious. What is your religion? From what caste are you? How old are you?

It is possible that your girlfriend will continue after mariage to behave in the same manner that she does actually. However, as you can not have sex with her before it, it is impossible to «test» her.

 

[libre]

Hello Omega

My adolescent boy sent my message to you without my having time to complete.

Once Ghandi was angry and he told his wife that she should get out of his house. His wife asked him : «Have you no shame to do this to me?». Gandhi relent. The mores are not the same in India as in the occident. Your choices and decisions will have more implications in India than they would in the occident.

I have to leave you; I have guests at my house at the moment.

Have a good life young man.

 

[Jake-inator]

Is this girl indian? if she is... man are you about to make the biggest mistake of your life.
Indian girls are the most immature, selfish b1tches i've ever encountered.
Some guys are so brainwashed that they can't see through their mind games.
Everything they do is a GAME.

I know this is a generalization not all of them are that bad, but there's A LOT!!

Indian women have combined that feminist idea of a powerful woman, and the traditional woman to create an evil, and exploitive creature.
They want a guy to buy them a house, pay for everything, then they b1tch until the husband surrenders his pants.

I have nothing against their looks or anything, their personality simply disgusts me...

I'd like to ask you... Why would you marry a girl you haven't even gotten to first base with?

Don't you see what she's doing?
She's holding back everything she has (her sexual power) in order to trap you into a marriage that you don't want!
She's probably been taught this in early childhood by her mom.

You think something's missing?
I'll tell you what's missing... any kind of sexual attraction.
A girl that likes you wouldn't be able to hold back from kissing you.

You only want to marry her because then you'll get some of that forbidden fruit.
I've never had indian pvssy, but from what my indian friends have told me its not that good and hard to get.

Have a nice life, kid. May Vishnu watch over you and keep you safe from indian gold diggers.

 

[babysfirstcoffin]

"I've never had indian pvssy, but from what my indian friends have told me its not that good and hard to get."


Go f u c k yourself you racist pig.


Have a nice day.

 

[JonJack]

Jake-inator is talking out of his ass. But i'm sure most everyone knows that already.

Shut up man. You're just wasting space.

 

[omega420]

hello Mr. libre
thanks 4 ur suggestions.

actually i was hesitating to post
(bcoz there was every possibility to misunderstand me)

but to my surprize i get ginius reply.

u r right; there is much difference in our cultures.

yesterday night i thought about all this with clarity of mind...and now there is no problem.

thanks again ur suggestions helped me to bring this clarity.

It doesn't really matter, however I'm curious. What is your religion? From what caste are you? How old are you?

born in hindu family im 26 yr

(and for other friends ::::: sorry 4 wasting ur space hehehehehe)

 

[Naapimp]

might want to go see a counsoler together who handles these type of things