"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to handle fukk buddies?

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I've been talking to a few girls online and I made it clear to them that I just want to chill at their house and ****. no dates or going out to eat. And they seem to be ok with that. I was thinking I should just bring some liquor to their house, watch a movie or something then put the moves on her. Is this a good plan? If your experienced with this can you give me some advice thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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By talking about having sex with a girl... very openly and direct... it is going to be awkward and theres a 95% chance your NOT going to get laid when you hang out with her. You gotta let her know that you want her, indirectly, with out actually saying "so are we going to fu** when i come over?"
 

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becomingme said:
By talking about having sex with a girl... very openly and direct... it is going to be awkward and theres a 95% chance your NOT going to get laid when you hang out with her. You gotta let her know that you want her, indirectly, with out actually saying "so are we going to fu** when i come over?"
Let him try it first.

Are they really OK with that?

I think being "to the point" and aggressive can work sometimes.
 

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actionjaxson said:
I've been talking to a few girls online and I made it clear to them that I just want to chill at their house and ****. no dates or going out to eat. And they seem to be ok with that. I was thinking I should just bring some liquor to their house, watch a movie or something then put the moves on her. Is this a good plan? If your experienced with this can you give me some advice thanks.
Its hard to maintain an F' buddy situation cause women get emotional and either latch on too tight or let go and cut you off.. you have to give them just the right amount of attention not too much and not too little.

Females go through phases when they think they should be in an LTR and they will question your FB relationship.. when that happens you must give her space and dont talk too much.. oh and when the sex gets great they will tend to cut you off to try and lure you into an LTR..
 

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You're talking to girls online and they are saying this is ok? Are these women desperate? Are they prostitutes?

Usually any direct attempt to create an F-buddy relationship fails. It has to be indirect and not really "said", but shown. Like DonGordon said, it takes a good balance of attention you give these women. Enough to give her some hope that she may be more with you, but not enough to show her that you don't want to be something with her at the current time.

Either way, the end is inevitable. She will either attempt to start something with you, or she will leave on her own accord (although they usually come back many times). Stay strong and don't give in! If you don't think this chick is relationship material from the beginning, it's not like time together will make it any different!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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becomingme said:
By talking about having sex with a girl... very openly and direct... it is going to be awkward and theres a 95% chance your NOT going to get laid when you hang out with her. You gotta let her know that you want her, indirectly, with out actually saying "so are we going to fu** when i come over?"
really...

here we go w/ the direct vs indirect BS again
 
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