You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Let him try it first.becomingme said:By talking about having sex with a girl... very openly and direct... it is going to be awkward and theres a 95% chance your NOT going to get laid when you hang out with her. You gotta let her know that you want her, indirectly, with out actually saying "so are we going to fu** when i come over?"
Its hard to maintain an F' buddy situation cause women get emotional and either latch on too tight or let go and cut you off.. you have to give them just the right amount of attention not too much and not too little.actionjaxson said:I've been talking to a few girls online and I made it clear to them that I just want to chill at their house and ****. no dates or going out to eat. And they seem to be ok with that. I was thinking I should just bring some liquor to their house, watch a movie or something then put the moves on her. Is this a good plan? If your experienced with this can you give me some advice thanks.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
really...becomingme said:By talking about having sex with a girl... very openly and direct... it is going to be awkward and theres a 95% chance your NOT going to get laid when you hang out with her. You gotta let her know that you want her, indirectly, with out actually saying "so are we going to fu** when i come over?"