How to handle dancing situations/really good dancers (men)

[jdawgmcb]

Alright guys, I have a question that i think is of some importance.

The other day i was at a party with a lot of people at it, and one of the main attractions was of course the dance floor. Well, I have absolutely zero talent when it comes to dancing, none, nada, zilch, zero. I have no desire to dance, but apparently girls do.

Now of course there was a part where there wasn't any dancing where there was food, bla bla bla etc etc etc.

How do you manage to still be the life of the party - yet have zero dancing talent?

 

[DarkShade]

Dancing is highly overrated. Just move to the music, there are far more important things to learn than the Soulja Boy

 

[jdawgmcb]

Dancing is highly overrated. Just move to the music, there are far more important things to learn than the Soulja Boy

Yes, i want to be a good part of the party (be the observed rather than an observer) and not dance, how does one manage this?

 

[Yce]

Yes, i want to be a good part of the party (be the observed rather than an observer) and not dance, how does one manage this?

Get DRUNK dude! It's been tried and proved countless times.

Either that, or try being who you are (cliche and lame, I know). Stop going to parties that you don't enjoy just because everyone else does. Stop trying to please people that you subconsciously HATE. Find friends that love doing the same activities you do, and court girls who possess the same personality as you. It's a lot of work, but that's what it takes to be happy. Your only other alternative is what you're feeling now: constant discontent and frustration.

Good luck.

 

[SharinganUser]

Just do what I did, take some time to learn 3 or 4 moves that you can use to dance with. Other than that just relax and enjoy yourself at the party.

 

[Jitterbug]

You want to be the life of a party at a dance party and can't dance? Good luck.

If you want to be the center of attention, go to a party where dancing isn't the main event.

 

[WC2]

Some men prance, some men dance. Some men are blessed with killer looks, some aren't. Some are intelligent. Some are funny. Some have a little bit of it all.

Prancing and Dancing is in no way a prerequisite to needing to bed a woman. I speak from experience.

Put a woman in her place and make her laugh and you'll get worlds more p*ssy than you will strutting your stuff with the rest of the hopeless dudes out there.

I find more often that the guys busting moves on the dance floor are just trying to make up for the fact that they have no game. That when they are off the dance floor, they have little to offer. Most the time.

The only dancing you have to worry about is the kind of dancing where all you need to do is keep to the beat with a woman.

The deal breaker with most women isn't your ability to 'wow' them on the dance floor, but to 'wow' them emotionally. Use your head, use your smarts, be an outgoing fun person, and all this dance BS goes right out the window.