“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to handle blatant comeons..yeah its a problem !!

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Hey guys...
i am sure everyone knows abt the various and innumerable 'crap tests' girls have to judge a guys viability. One of the tests i am sure everyone has run into a lot is the 'blatant come on' which is basically a girl being very outrageous and transparent in her flirting. e,g like giving numerous aggressive tight lenghty 'boob press' hugs and gratuitious touching.

Now i am sure it sounds fun but its a double edged sword..if you take that as a green signal for anything and go for the kiss and then she pulls away it makes u look like an ass..if u dont do anything, then one has regrets.

Pretty stupid rant..but just wanted to know whats the best way to deal with obvious 'take me' flirting...ignore it to build intrigue..play into it (cld be playing into the chump trap)...or just let it be. What do u guys do ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whenever a girl comes on strong (such as physically touching you) ... well I'm gonna let Admiral Ackbar from Star Wars: Return of the Jedi explain:

"It's a Trap"
 
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yes usually those girls are so good at touching because they've done it many times before to many guys. they do it because they know it GETS ATTENTION. and if they have your attention, and have created ANTICIPATION, then they have a tool with which to manipulate you. the natural question is: how to keep from being manipulated?

the only answer is to not give her more attention in the first place. It is a typical DJ move to run your own game, and assume she's interested even if she's not giving you IOIs. But you should also abide by the converse of that rule: this girl trying to push you out of your frame by giving all of these bullsh!t buying signals...because she knows it makes you vulnerable. If you stay in your frame, and don't let it affect you then she can never control you. how do you keep this crap from affecting you? i mean...she really knows how to make a guy feel good with this sh!t, right??

the answer is to NEVER desire these signals from her in the first place. Just pay no mind to it, because you don't care if she's touching your arm or brushing her t!ts against you or flicking her hair or dancing all up on you or whatever bs antics she's pulling that day. Now this will have a VERY powerful effect on this type of girl.
She will do one of 2 things:

1. pursue you REALLY hard (unlikely) or
2 . give up on you immediately and completely (likely)

I know a few girls like this, and I made a decision not to take their sh*t anymore like the other drooling idiots they have hanging around. They stopped speaking to me almost immediately. It was as if I didn't even exist for them....really funny sh*t. But hey, the problem is solved from my end!!!
You will learn with more time that there are girls who just need this attention and will do whatever they can to get it. that includes playing their "friends" like pawns in their own personal drama game. You'll learn which ones to steer clear of.
 
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