"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to handle an older Asian woman?

Bizzle13

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There's this older Thai woman at my work, she looks really young for her age and has a great body. We flirt when we talk but as her English still isn't great I don't know if the chick's just being polite and going all with it all smiles.

I'm already in the mindset that, as the young buck, I am the prize but how do I push and pull, playful tease, control the frame etc when her English isn't great. Plus does anyone have any experience with SE asain women as I feel their mentality may be different to western culture girls ie english women.

Thanks,

Bizzle
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I gave a mild neg to a Thai woman once, and I think she actually got offended. I won her back, but I think they may require a more traditional approach than your average westernized slvt. Culturally, they aren't raised with all the feminist entitlement BS that screws up western women.
 

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That's what I thought, everything I've learned that I've tried with western girls gets a very different outcome from women raised in SE Asia (I met a Malaysian chick raised in England, she was difficult). But yeah smiling and kino are key but I've noticed usually beta moves get a good reaction from this woman. Will report back if anything happens, if nothing else it'll give me experience as I'm definitely visiting SE Asia at some point :D Anyone else feel like when they go to another country they will SMASH it, like I talk to anyone when I'm abroad. I reckon I'll slay haha
 

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Just show her your bear feet (the flats of your foot). She'll... love it. ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bizzle13 said:
You mean bare feet? I do not own a bear
:crackup: Yeah lol... typo.... (that actually made me laugh). If you can get a bear, I'm sure she'd love that as well.
 

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They have VERY different mindsets in comparison to the Western world. Too much stuff you have to change, making your interactions feel unnatural, that's why I I'll always stay away from the traditional Asian chicks unless they are Americanized. Even then you need massive amounts of good luck when you meet the parents/family. It's not impossible, but you really have to be dedicated if this is your thing.
 

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I am definitely not meeting this chicks parents, but I understand what you're saying. I think south east Asian women are the hottest in the world so maybe one day I'm gonna have to meet parents etc but I'll cross that bridge when and if I get there. It is different dealing with different mindsets but knowledge is power and if I can adjust accordingly the possibilities are endless. Why just stick to fish and chips or cheeseburgers every night, maybe one night I'll fancy sushi - if you know what I mean ;) and yeah if all else fails I'll get myself a bear, worked for Borat
 

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These are the most feminine women, I think. Not sure about Thai, but I have a big thing for Japanese women, from a LTR perspective. All of the negative traits of western women are practically nonexistant.

There are some new negative traits though. One, if you can call it negative, is they will never communicate the negative. If you are bringing her down, she will still act like everything is okay, and will do everything in her power to keep from making you offended, upset or disappointed, while her interest level goes down.

The other negatives, assuming the porn is any reflection, is that they tend not to shave "down there", and apparently make strange, rapey noises in the bedroom. Haven't witnessed this myself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yes they do make those noises, lol but I don't see that as a negative... they sure as fvk won't talk to you or tell you what you should do. Why are you pursuing an older one though? Even she is gonna think that's weird.

Besides, if you want to keep your job, stay out of her pants. Nothing good can come of hitting on women you work with. If you want an Asian woman, go to ASIA. And yeah, they don't shave down there... you have to coax them into it, but on the flip side, they cook, clean and take care of you and children. They won't fight with you very much and are basically the opposite of every western women. They are also small and petite and you can always feel like the big guy around them. Finally, Asian women look great in high heels. :D
 

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Haha thanks guys. I'm not actively looking for an old Asian lady lol there just happens to be a more 'mature' Asian lady at my work that is hot and that I've been flirting with. If she's hot, she's young enough haha oh and it's not at my proper career-job, just a little side job I've got that's very casual and we work in different departments etc and like I said I'm not gomna date this woman, just going for the giggles and perhaps experience lol I'll definitely ensure that any relationship I'm in, regardless of race, pubes are trimmed or shaven lmao
 

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Stop ruining the dream bro! Haha this one at work has got a phat ass though haha
 
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