Alrite so theres this girl and she doesn't go to my school but a nearby one. anyway after talking to her i convinced her and her friend to come drinking with me and my friend at his house while no ones home. The problem is shes very popular, shes one of the hottest girls in the entire school and knows it. My advantages is shes only a sophmore while im a senior but other than that she really needs to be brought down to earth i've never done neg hits before and i wouldn't know where to start she is like a HB 9.9.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How to handle a very ****y/popular girl?
- Thread starter Eklipse
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
IceCream
Don Juan
She's just a little sophmore girl.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
1. Don't care what she thinks.
2. Treat her like an HB6 (Average Girl)
3. Playfully neg her all the time, like a neg-less comment from you is a treat to her.
4. Be alpha and powerful around her, act like you know everything but don't seem to be full of yourself.
5. Never say you're better than her in some way because she should already know you're better be like "yeah whatever."
6. She's probably a busy girl, so don't try to get her to spend time with you a lot unless she requests it.
7. Be FUNNY. Make her LAUGH. Do WHATEVER it takes to be entertaining.
8. Make sure to reject her a little bit here and there and try to show low interest and rarely high interest, unless you're already escalating.
9. Be able to show interest in her friends so she gets jealous.
10. Have fun, and don't get pissed if you mess up, she can't be as great as you say. In fact I bet she's only a 7.5 at best. 9.9 is way too outrageous. If you don't believe in 10s then a 9.9 is basically the same as a 10.
2. Treat her like an HB6 (Average Girl)
3. Playfully neg her all the time, like a neg-less comment from you is a treat to her.
4. Be alpha and powerful around her, act like you know everything but don't seem to be full of yourself.
5. Never say you're better than her in some way because she should already know you're better be like "yeah whatever."
6. She's probably a busy girl, so don't try to get her to spend time with you a lot unless she requests it.
7. Be FUNNY. Make her LAUGH. Do WHATEVER it takes to be entertaining.
8. Make sure to reject her a little bit here and there and try to show low interest and rarely high interest, unless you're already escalating.
9. Be able to show interest in her friends so she gets jealous.
10. Have fun, and don't get pissed if you mess up, she can't be as great as you say. In fact I bet she's only a 7.5 at best. 9.9 is way too outrageous. If you don't believe in 10s then a 9.9 is basically the same as a 10.
duffman360
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it would be easy to get with her cause u r older and a lot of girls in hs like older guys case they think that they are more mature that guys their age
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
Dude im in the same situation.
What year is sophmore? 9? 10? 11? Sorry, Aussie here.
I made out with like the hottest, most popular girl at my school. She was a couple years younger though. All I did was talk to her like a normal person. We ended up in a little group and I talked to everyone else as much as her. But I did kino her when I was talking to her. I brought her into my world. I was having a good time and she was just there for the ride. Then I ran of and was chattin away to some other people and she came out of nowhere and wanted to make out. Didn't see it coming at the time.
Moral of the story. Just treat here like a person, not a 9.9 babe. If you treat her like a godess you will be just like all the other AFC chumps. Sounds like you already have her on a pedestal.
OR
Get her drunk
I made out with like the hottest, most popular girl at my school. She was a couple years younger though. All I did was talk to her like a normal person. We ended up in a little group and I talked to everyone else as much as her. But I did kino her when I was talking to her. I brought her into my world. I was having a good time and she was just there for the ride. Then I ran of and was chattin away to some other people and she came out of nowhere and wanted to make out. Didn't see it coming at the time.
Moral of the story. Just treat here like a person, not a 9.9 babe. If you treat her like a godess you will be just like all the other AFC chumps. Sounds like you already have her on a pedestal.
OR
Get her drunk
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
im with u sin WTF is a sophmore and freshman like who the hell calls some who goes to school a fresh man lols
ExcelNPrevail
Don Juan
I'm in the same situation but me and her are the same age. I do agree guys do kiss there ass and it gets frustrating because they get all air headed! Thinking there the sh**, but oh well.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GaryUranga
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my start is to be cooler than the girl.. so yeah
This is called pedalstaling.
I have met lots of hot chicks, but I don't give them any special treatment. I still tease them and make fun of them. Sometimes I think I go "over" the line, but the girls love me even more.
Thats why you can't be too nice, you can't be afraid to let her go. The ones you want, you have to show your willing to walk away any time.
I have met lots of hot chicks, but I don't give them any special treatment. I still tease them and make fun of them. Sometimes I think I go "over" the line, but the girls love me even more.
Thats why you can't be too nice, you can't be afraid to let her go. The ones you want, you have to show your willing to walk away any time.