"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to Handle a Cheating Woman

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good find. I've heard that song before but never paid much attention to it. Perfect display of the "unaffected" attitude.
 

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And this should be your attitude when you get rid of her. In fact, it should be your attitude at all times. I loooooooove hearing this tune on the radio when I'm driving somewhere in the spring/summer:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_E8OpX2At4

In the summer time when the weather is high
You can chase right up and touch the sky
When the weather's right
You got women, you got women on your mind
Have a drink, have a drive
Go out and see what you can find

If her daddy's rich, take her out for a meal
If her daddy's poor, just do what you feel
Speed along the lane
Do a turn or return the twenty-five
When the sun goes down
You can make it, make it good and really fine

With a fat beat, when her daddy with a me
We'll have everybody, but we do as we please
When the weather's fine
We go fishing or go swimming in the sea

We're always happy
Long's we're living in this sound philosophy
Sing along with us, dee dee dee dee dee
Da da da da da, yeah we're hap-pap-py
Da da da dee da doo dee da dee da dee da da, yeah
Da da da da da, dee da da dee da da
Alright

When the wind is here, yeah it's party time
Bring your bottle waggin' back 'cause it will soon be summer time And we'll signal a cab
We'll go driving or maybe we'll settle down
If she's rich, if she's nice
Bring your friends and we'll all go into town

In the summer time when the weather is high
You can chase right up and touch the sky
When the weather's right
You got women, you got women on your mind
Have a drink, have a drive
Go out and see what you can find

If her daddy's rich, take her out for a meal
If her daddy's poor, just do what you feel
Speed along the lane
Do a turn or return the twenty-five
When the sun goes down
You can make it, make it good and really fine

With a fat beat, when her daddy with a me
We'll have everybody, but we do as we please
When the weather's fine
We go fishing or go swimming in the sea
We're always happy
Long's we're living in this sound philosophy
Sing along with us, dee dee dee dee dee
Da da da da da, yeah we're hap-pap-py
Da da da dee da doo dee da dee da dee da da
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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