How to gracefully reject a girl's advances

[djthiago1]

Suppose a girl is trying to make out in the car, you want to stop her to leave her wanting more for the next time. How would you decline her advances ?

 

[Urbanyst]

Say "Not yet" or "Not now".

 

[Glassguy]

Smile and say "you don't think I'm that easy now do you?"

I'm going to assume that you're like me, and intereted in her for more than fvcking. By banging her early on, the risk is high that you'll lose interest. Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you don't hold back too long

Pvssy is like money in the bank. Once you pull out of it, the interest is all gone.

 

[djthiago1]

Smile and say "you don't think I'm that easy now do you?"

I'm going to assume that you're like me, and intereted in her for more than fvcking. By banging her early on, the risk is high that you'll lose interest. Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you don't hold back too long

Pvssy is like money in the bank. Once you pull out of it, the interest is all gone.

This is good.
I usually say: "don't you think you're going too fast?".

I tend to wait for like 4 dates or more, and if i'm strong enough, i wait to do it as present for them for asking to be the girlfriend, it varies.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

If you don't give her anything you'll just look like you're not interested. I make that mistake all the time.

I'd give her one big passionate kiss, stroking her hair back slightly, holding her jaw etc. Like you do when you're about to go full make out. Then pull back as she's leaning back in for the follow up, say something like "That was good." and then give her a cunning smile and politely say your goodbyes, setting up something for next week.

She'll probably be sitting there thinking "Hnggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh" and then next date she'll be shaking with anticipation for that big snuggle.

Of course the discipline is stopping the kiss neatly in the first place rather than just carrying on.

(EDIT: Just for bragging rights I'll mention I once did this to a girl and after the kiss she dropped her handbag on the floor. All the stuff went everywhere. That's when you know you've done it right )

 

[djthiago1]

If you don't give her anything you'll just look like you're not interested. I make that mistake all the time.

I'd give her one big passionate kiss, stroking her hair back slightly, holding her jaw etc. Like you do when you're about to go full make out. Then pull back as she's leaning back in for the follow up, say something like "That was good." and then give her a cunning smile and politely say your goodbyes, setting up something for next week.

She'll probably be sitting there thinking "Hnggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh" and then next date she'll be shaking with anticipation for that big snuggle.

Of course the discipline is stopping the kiss neatly in the first place rather than just carrying on.

(EDIT: Just for bragging rights I'll mention I once did this to a girl and after the kiss she dropped her handbag on the floor. All the stuff went everywhere. That's when you know you've done it right )

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Oh yeah yeah, i always give them something, i just try to avoid that whole "highschool make out sesh in the car" to build antecipation. Works specially well if she's very good looking.

 

[RangerMIke]

Why would you start making out with a chick in the car if you did not intend for things to move forward?

 

[djthiago1]

Why would you start making out with a chick in the car if you did not intend for things to move forward?

I don't start, they usually attack me when i go for the short kiss goodbye.

 

[RangerMIke]

I don't start, they usually attack me when i go for the short kiss goodbye.

You need to work on your skill at controlling chicks. Nothing should be happening by accident

 

[Murk]

This thread is alien to me, isn't it the girls job to do this? You guys are talking about tactfully engineering a relationship by setting up a standard she wouldn't usually adhere to, isn't this so wrong?

 

[djthiago1]

You need to work on your skill at controlling chicks. Nothing should be happening by accident

Not my fault if i give them tingles haha

This thread is alien to me, isn't it the girls job to do this? You guys are talking about tactfully engineering a relationship by setting up a standard she wouldn't usually adhere to, isn't this so wrong?

This is the point where you become the ultimate baddass, the day you look at the pretty girl and tell her "you're going too fast", know what that does? It quadruples their interest level that's what.

 

[Murk]

Point taken, I'm usually too "in the moment" and impulsive for that approach.

 

[djthiago1]

Point taken, I'm usually too "in the moment" and impulsive for that approach.

It takes massive amounts of self-control and it differentiates you from all the other stooges, that's why it works so well, it gives off the vibe that you went out with 12 playmates yesterday

 

[wifehunter]

"Not now, I have a headache."

 

[wifehunter]

"is private property, you trespassing!"

are you guys seriously this unimaginative?

for me, most of fun of interacting with women is the creativity

lolz!!!

nailed it!!!

 

[derby1]

This is the point where you become the ultimate baddass, the day you look at the pretty girl and tell her "you're going too fast", know what that does? It quadruples their interest level that's what.

I agree with this if pulled off with a sarcastic smile but carried on seducing an hour later ....thats good teasing

dropping her off home right after saying it??, .......youd be nexted in the UK for feminine behaviour....

its a very fine line

 

[djthiago1]

I agree with this if pulled off with a sarcastic smile but carried on seducing an hour later ....thats good teasing

dropping her off home right after saying it??, .......youd be nexted in the UK for feminine behaviour....

its a very fine line

I pull this off for at least 2-3 dates in a row before i decide to move forward, i have a strict 5 second max kiss rule. If you trully believe a woman will dump a man because he's hard to get, you're very naive. You're more likelly to get a stalker.
All the other chumps are dying to kiss more, not you, you pull out first.

 

[derby1]

If you trully believe a woman will dump a man because he's hard to get, you're very naive.

hard to get is when you take them out for a brilliant time, you invest your **** in them like no other man ever has, they become invested in you!!

then you show her the value of your time, by making it scarce , NOT by telling her its too much too soon like some little girl

now youve put you count how long you kiss for 5seconds you are a very naive young lad giving it the big ......i presume you are dating young women or girls you could be a virgin im not sure with the way you type, good luck when you get in the adult pool

i agreed with you originally teasing is fine as long as its followed up shortly after

 

[djthiago1]

hard to get is when you take them out for a brilliant time, you invest your **** in them like no other man ever has, they become invested in you!!

then you show her the value of your time, by making it scarce , NOT by telling her its too much too soon like some little girl

now youve put you count how long you kiss for 5seconds you are a very naive young lad giving it the big ......i presume you are dating young women or girls you could be a virgin im not sure with the way you type, good luck when you get in the adult pool

i agreed with you originally teasing is fine as long as its followed up shortly after

You and this sex addiction. God.

 

[derby1]

You and this sex addiction. God.

Thats what men do, have sex with women, your on a Don Juan Forum.....

look up the words "Don Juan" it says "to have sex with many different women"

Plough the fields boy Plough the fields