How to go about this

[bud_2005]

There is this girl that I've been hanging out with sometimes and I like her. We are both in college and she lives about 100 yards from me in a different dorm.

The problem is that she has a boyfriend in a different town but I've been trying to ignore that. He is 23 years old, we are both 19. Well anyways we got drunk together a couple nights ago and she told my friend that she is thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend because he hasn't returned her call for 2 weeks. She said she wants someone to hang out with her. She also told my friend that she wants someone that gives her butterflies.

At the end of the night I gave her kiss.


So I want me and her to become official but to give her butterfiles don't I have to be kind of a jerk? But I want to let her know that I don't want to be her friend and I want to be more than that. Basically I want her to tell me if I am wasting my time or not.


So how do I make us a couple while being unpredictable and give her "butterflies"

 

[sexy_kuta]

keep doing that ur doing.. spend time with her but not too much..

act like u want to become somehting more.. ingore the frendzone.. if she talks about her bf.. change the subject

make moves.. she will soon fall for you

 

[blinkwatt]

You catch her offgaurd by calling her "breezy" out of no where. I usually say stuff like "your such a breezy" or "whats going on breezy" out of no where with great results. It normally leads to "whats that mean" and friendly push/slap to the wrist. You could easily turn that into great kino. Funny thing is I dont even know what breezy means,other then its related to a chick. So when they ask "well whats that mean" I cant give them a straight answer and it drive some crazy.

 

[MightyMate]

Its not hard. Just ignore she has bf.

 

[Ace of Flames]

she'll never tell you if you're wasting your time, because if you have to ask that, then you are. be confident in yourself. you can bring this one in.

u can let her know u wanna be more then friends by not being a friend. be a dj. seduce her. dont listen to her problems or crap about her bf. dont even tell her "hey, why dont you break up with him? go with me!". thats not gonna help. the best thing is just act like she's single.

good luck.