"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to Go about this?

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amnbyrd

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Alright Im finally thru and over my ex and I have my eyes on a perfect replacement. Thing is shes in the dorms next door and I only see her every once in a while. Though a shes friends with this girl whos 2 rooms down from a friend of mine. How should I go about asking her out? I mean I dont know when I'll even see her next. Would it be alright if I talked to her friend and asked what was up with her or would that make things awkward/weird??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wait for that girl down stairs, pretend you doing something. She comes out pretend you bumped into her.. Create opportunity yourself.
 
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I see what you're saying but shes in the dorm building next to mine. I guess I'll have to either wait til I see her with her friend in my building or just ask her friend whos in my building to introduce me or something.
 
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You have your "eyes" on her?

You want to ask her out?

That's not how it works, really. Talk to her first. Build rapport, gauge interest, THEN ask her out - if she's worth it.
 
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