"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how to go about this?

twotyme

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Well things with this girl got started as sort of a **** buddy relationship with this girl i met a while back at the mall-shes gonna be 16 in a few weeks and id say shes about a hb6-7. well im 18 and we already had sex-in fact thats mainly what she likes to do. well i really didnt want to get into a relationship since i should be leaving soon for the Air Force but she says she wants to be more than just f buddies. Im kinda thinkin about goin for more but 1 problem is her parents(which i havent even met yet hate me) since they found out that we've been having sex. another thing is they live right across from my AF recruiter and her dad got mad and even tried to get my address and other info off of him but he couldnt give it out. so if i decide to go for this how should i go about things?-i mean will i just have to pretty much go out with her behind her parents' backs?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

twotyme

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no i mean if i decide to actually go out with her. any input appreciated especially on her parents hating me
 

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Who cares what the parents think, your real concern should be that you're leaving for the Air Force. If you're fcuk buddies and you leave, everything is cool, but if you're in a relationship and leave, then there will just be emotional problems to deal with when she cheats on you.
 
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