How to give your girl the time of her life

[Trance]

Me and my girl have been having a great time together. We've been going out for walks in the beach, having sex in a lot of crazy places, going out saturday nights, drinking, dancing, i always make up a new drinking games, all ppl around us just have a great time along too.
I always go out with a lot of diferent groups of friends, wherever i go i know ppl there, always in a great socializing.

Her girlfriends are jealous of me. They have problems with their boyfriends, and they envy the fire in our eyes when we are together. They envy that she has no problem when i am out during the week, even going out clubing during the week, that we just trust eachother and everytime we're together (like 2/3 times a week) its very special.
I do a lot of crazy stuff too, like i am at the beach with a group, and i just undress my coat and shirt, and start dancing with my girl in the beach, carrying her in my arms next to the waves, kissing her there, all of them like... crazy dude...
In the club i do breakdance, all of them are like whoaaa

I surprised her a couple of times, when i knew she was going of of somewhere, school, work, and was just there waiting for her. When she passed by, i grabbed her by surprise and started kissing her. The look in her face said everything. I told her: "with me, the unexpected is expected" lol

Instead of giving her a gift, i gave her a small plastic heart, that just meant everything to her. She's completly fallen for me, she says: wherever you go, i'll go along; i wanna make love to you anywhere, anytime you want me..


So after many months of DJing, i really boosted my social status with friends, learned the ways of girls, and now that it was the 1st time i actually liked a girl, there was no way she could not fall in love for me. And that's what i think it is the ultimate DJ goal.

 

[skinnydart]

So other then showing up at places you know you're going to be, what's your trick?

 

[shagnscoob]

sounds like his trick is passion

-.-

 

[quest]

he sounds very outgoing, and shows affection to his woman infront of others, BUT not in the annoying "hello schmoopy" "no your schmoopy" way.

be VERY hard to stay that out going i would think..?

i'm interested in some experiences on that.

 

[Trance]

quest: "be VERY hard to stay that out going i would think..?" what do you mean so that i can try to explain?

shagnscoob: yes, the trick is passion, and confidence in myself. One of the things i said to this girl is that i only give one chance. One time we were talking in a group, and a friend of mine was having problems with his girl and wanted to know what i would do if i was him, he said:

friend: imagine if you and your girl break up... what would...
me: it wont happen
friend: but imagine for some reason...
me: no reason for that to happen. it wont.
friend: but if one of you two would cheat on the other?
me: it wont happen.

my girl was just stunned by this.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Great post bro, I know girls love hanging out with guys that keep them on their toes, lol. By the way...."with me, the unexpected is expected"...can i use that? LOL

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Thats great man, I also used to have the passion and a simular relationship with my girl, after she dumped me it died.

 

[Climax]

Trance: u ARE a true Don Juan.

 

[Trance]

thx for the feedback guys

 

[Panda 2000]

I give this ... two thumbs up.

 

[Trance]

Today, i was coming to my place, and i sent her a sms telling that i passed by her work when i was coming to my place, but she had left. She tells me she leaves 1 hour before these days, that she didnt know i was coming in time from Porto, and she wanted to see me so much...

She lives right next to me, and i send a sms: "go to your window". She goes and she sees me from there, sends me a hug and a kiss. Latter on msn: "You wanted to see me so..." lolll

 

[quest]

trance, what i was saying was..

i think it would be very hard, over time, (never breaking up...) to remain that exciting. i think you would need to tone it down, so that when you are spontaneous, she DOESN'T expect it.
i am interested in your thoughts.

surely you will run out of surprises over time.

 

[Trance]

I dont think i will for a long time. Imagine this.

She doesnt even know half of my groups of friends at our hometown. And we do a lot of stuff together, that i'll like her to come along.

She didnt go with me to Porto, and dont know how my life there is. I have half of my life there, and most of my best friends.

She's pretty tied up about time now, when she has more free time a lot of stuff to do.

When spring comes, i always go on a couple of trips.

Summer... Both with so much free time, lots of plans to do. For instance, i always make like 3 trips, that she'd love to go. Going camping, beach and night kind of vacations.

We've already planed going out 1 week to spain in a big trip in a couple of months, should be really crazy and hot.

Parties? I always have birthdays at weekends, i know all of the northern portugal nightlife, always going to diferent spots, and a few of them i hit a lot, having a lot of fun there, getting free passes, free drinks, etc..

Movies, mall, going out at night near the beach and the beach bars (we live 10m away from the beach).

About surprises, surprises, i always come up with something new. Not for her to have fun, but for myself have fun with it, and making her consequently have fun too. I like doing crazy stuff.

Sex? She's as horny as i am. It will reach the exponent.

Games.. Not to brag, but i'm good and exciting to watch at every game lol Be it pool, casino games, poker or other card games, im a natural player (didnt mean it in a DJ way now haha). She loves watching me being the best at all these.

 

[DeathDealer]

how long have you two known each other?

 

[Trance]

I've met her this summer, she dated a friend of mine for a week or so, then began to hang out in the coffe i used to be at. I didnt really talk much to her, i found her pretty but there was no "click".
But i used to see her looking at me, and i looked at her, there was some sort of atraction. Then, like 2 months ago, for 2 weekends we started talking a bit more, and the next weekend there was really a "click" between the two of us.

 

[catch]

hey trance, what was it then.
what made her first fall for you??

c&f.. jelousy.. ???

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by Trance
I've met her this summer, she dated a friend of mine for a week or so, then began to hang out in the coffe i used to be at. I didnt really talk much to her, i found her pretty but there was no "click".
But i used to see her looking at me, and i looked at her, there was some sort of atraction. Then, like 2 months ago, for 2 weekends we started talking a bit more, and the next weekend there was really a "click" between the two of us.

What made the 2 of you "click" ? And.... when u said that in the beginning there was no click, was this not because u never even spoke to her much? or what?

And 1 more thing... what do u see this chick as to you? A potential wife? Or do you just put so much effort into all your girlfriends?

 

[Trance]

This is how it happened:

So i met this chick like 3/4 months ago that was dating a friend of mine. After a couple days he dumps her and returns to his 2y ex.
Like a 2 months ago, she started hanging out at the same place me, so i started getting to know her.

When i first saw her with my friend, my first impression was i good, i felt atraction, i liked her since the 1st time i saw her, but there wasnt any click. One saturday i was talking to this girl, we dont really know eachother, but we both felt a big climate rising between the two of us. Latter on, we were in a group of friends, she was there too with her girl best friend, and i had told her i live really next to her (like 1 block lol), so she was kinda sugesting if we'd went together.
I didnt give the edge of going alone with her, so she went in a ride with her friend. When i got to my place she was on my msn, we talked a bit and both confessed there was something coming up between us, but maybe wasnt suposed to happen that night she said.


Next day i sugest she comes to my place the following day, which she did.
At my place i made a move, and went for a kiss but she didnt went along, she was feeling very nervous. Anyway it was more of a physical atraction at that point. We kept dating for a week, hugging and almost kissing but still no kiss sessions, and that was making me crazy (in a good way), but i knew she had had some disapointments with guys before and that she wanted to be more sure of my intentions.


So during that week, i went out, i PU a girl in a club and it was nice. Next day my f.uck buddy called me and i went to her place. But after i left her place, i was thinking like... This was a good time, but actually didnt mean ****... And suddenly i was missing the other girl..

Next weekend me and my girl had a crazy saturday night, making drinking games, having such a great time along with some friends, and we first kissed there in the bar. Latter on, we kissed crazy, and ended up almost making it in the stairs of the hall of my building, really intense ****..

Its been almost a year since my last LTR, and i had lots of girls and fun, and now i was missing that last call of the day to that special one. At this point i felt something very special for this girl, so we were starting a relation, we were both totally into eachother. I had never felt this kind of interest by a girl since a long time ago, and specially having so many girls and sex regularly, i knew this was the one.



In Pook's anti-dump machine, it is stated that you shouldnt be with a girl more than once a week in the 1st month, to keep the mistery and the excitment of getting to know eachother, letting her wish to be with you again.

I started dating this girl 1,5 months ago. And during the first 3 weeks i gave her a lot of atention. Since she had little spare time during the day, and can only go out on saturdays, if i wanted to be with her, it had to be in her free time, which kinda bothered me in terms of keeping the control.

So i gave her a lot of atention for 3 weeks, i was kinda loosing control and even tough i knew i shouldnt be talking to her again so soon, or in msn in the next day, i did, and did again, cause i felt she was the special one.

But i knew i had to be the strong link to make her fall totally for me, and finally i did it. Next weekend i setup going out with friends, and she went along. Next weekend i go to dinner with 5 of my best friends, and she said she will meet me there cause all she wants is to be with me. Next week i spend it all away from her, at other town, and guess what when i come back.. She told me she called me twice last day, but my phone was off, that she felt a pain in her heart cause of not being able to reach to me, thinking to herself about my whereabouts. And then told me she's in love with me.


3 weeks of hard atention, and 1 week of no atention at all, made her see how much she missed me, and that she was in love with me.


Our first time was incredibly intense, we did it in a public alley, both totally out of control, it was raining, it looked like 9 1/2 weeks movie, amazing.
We kept doing it in some places, and all weekends at my building. Last week we did it ay my place, and it was amazing.. My friends told me she was in the clouds that day, with a smile face to face. It was just incredible, she told me she never liked soooo much, that she was in wonderland, that she made love...


So well, now we're both in love with eachother, and it has been great.




I think this explains a bit of how it happened, but any questions will be gladly answered. Dunno if this explained exactly the previous questions.

 

[Climax]

I really like this thread...

Trance: man! After reading that it makes me wanna write a love book about you and her Lets just hope that things end well too.

Otherwise... seeing that there have been a few threads on "sex" would u mind sharing with us what you actually did to make her love it (having sex with you) so much? Is it because u ahev alot of experiance from before, or is there something that you do? I dont mean to be nosy, i'm just interested But if its too much of a personall question to answer then i will understand (lol)

Otherwise... I really like the part when you "took a break" from her, because that actually made her realise how much you mean to her and that she actually LOVES you! Nice.

Trance said:

we talked a bit and both confessed there was something coming up between us

What exactly was said? (what did you say to her? And what did SHE say to YOU?) What was her reason for "falling" for you?

I had never felt this kind of interest by a girl since a long time ago, and specially having so many girls and sex regularly, i knew this was the one.

What about her made u feel the way you did/do about her that other girls didnt "have"? If you could also shortly describe how u feel towards her? ( Eg: when u dont see her or talk to her for lets say a full day or 2 , do u miss her? or what?

Now... u stated that you never felt this way about a girl since a long time ago , who was the PREVIOUS girl that you felt this way about?

Ok, well anyways... I'm happy to see that things are going well for you and your lady, and i hope that they continue to go well for the 2 of you Otherwise, keep well...

Laterz...

 

[Trance]

Originally posted by aequitas

Otherwise... seeing that there have been a few threads on "sex" would u mind sharing with us what you actually did to make her love it (having sex with you) so much? Is it because u ahev alot of experiance from before, or is there something that you do? I dont mean to be nosy, i'm just interested But if its too much of a personall question to answer then i will understand (lol)

Well, first week we didnt kiss, but i kinda insinuated i was very sexual, making small compliments about her body that implicitly insinuated sexual interest.
2nd week we kissed, and we almost ended up making sex in my building stairs, i just made her hot, started touching her upper parts, undressing her top after while. She is a hot girl too, and she knows i'm experient.

Everyday we talked on msn from them on, i have this "gift" that without the girls even realizing, the conversation turns to sex, and i get them wet and with sexual toughts. I always talked a bit about sex, telling her that i want her, i want to undress her, feel every bit of her body, kiss her here and there (detailed of course), feel her getting wet, feel her warmt against mine, feel her breath in my ear etc..

I learned that when talking with a girl about sex, NEVER tell her explicitly the stuff you want to say, use camuflaged talking about it.

Then, when i was with her, instead of asking if she wanted to go to my place, i wouldnt ask, i would just do it. Girls dont like to be put in a situation they are are explicitly saying they are going to have sex, but instead tag along with you and get to do it in a natural way.

About her loving it, girls love a few things. They love when you talk a bit dirty when you are doing it, they love doing it doggy style, and they love her asses slaped. And this particular chick loves this last part, so i get her really hot, at a point i can say anything to her, making her even more crazy. Plus i'm very experient, i wouldn't say i'm experient with a lot lot of women (like 10-15), but i'm very experient in the number of times i've done it cause of having regular sexual partners.

Also, at some point we were already in love, so it was very special to both of us, and specially to her cause she's a girl, and having incredible sex, while at the same time it is making love.

Ah, other tip, when you are not doing it, never say anything very sexual to her, but instead say "you're so pretty", "i like you so much", "you make me crazy", etc.
And when you ARE doing it, and she is very horny, talk dirty to a girl, specially when she is cumming, it will drive them crazy. And when you are finishing, you can say something tender like "i like you so much", "i love you", etc..

Originally posted by aequitas

Trance said:

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we talked a bit and both confessed there was something coming up between us
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What exactly was said? (what did you say to her? And what did SHE say to YOU?) What was her reason for "falling" for you?

This was in the 1st day, the day there was the click. I was noticing the way she was looking at me, just as i was looking at her. Suddenly i was thinking her voice was sweet and atracted me, that i wanted to taste her lips, and get to know this chick better.
I was teasing her saying i live next to her, maybe we could go to our places together, and she was teasing too.

Originally posted by aequitas

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I had never felt this kind of interest by a girl since a long time ago, and specially having so many girls and sex regularly, i knew this was the one.
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What about her made u feel the way you did/do about her that other girls didnt "have"? If you could also shortly describe how u feel towards her? ( Eg: when u dont see her or talk to her for lets say a full day or 2 , do u miss her? or what?

Now... u stated that you never felt this way about a girl since a long time ago , who was the PREVIOUS girl that you felt this way about?

Well, the other girls were like meeting them at a club, and making out right there. And getting it that easy makes you lose the interest.
Other girls i've been with that i've met from some time dunno... Didnt got interested by many reasons. One i didnt like cause she was too distracted. Other had a slutty past. Other i didnt like her cause the look in her eyes isnt tender, she's like too much ****y for me and tought i liked more than i did. Many reasons, none of them were the right one, i didnt miss any of them, it was just a mean to get to my end, of the right one for the moment.


About my girl, like i said before, i had a f.uck buddy that is just INCREDIBLE in bed, but i didnt had any feelings for her. And i was starting to like my girl, and after being with my FB, i was leaving her place and thinking... This didnt mean ****, im missing the girl...
Its like sex isnt that important when you have enough.


The previous girl i felt like this before was my 3 year girlfriend, we broke up 1 year ago. Before her, i had a 1 year girlfriend. So in my lifetime, i only had 2 serious relations.
The others i would just date, enjoy their company, but didnt really miss them.
So i had a LTR, then DJ 6 months, then LTR and DJ 9 months or so, and now starting other LTR.
That's why when i missed this one a lot, i knew it would be another special one.