how to get your girlfriend back after you dump her

[mojo16]

i broke up with my girlfriend because i got bored.
now I'm regretting it haha.

she came over last week, i chomped out and told her i miss her. she said she
"kinda got used to just being friends" and said no.

what do you guys think is the best way to win her back?

 

[European-DJ]

I am in the same boat ..
- Just because i havn't told her i miss her yet, realise it, she is gone.

You got bored once, you will get bored again.

Focus abit on yourself in this hard time, i have been in a 2 yr Ltr too, i was SOO pathetic the first month, since i really wanted to get her back - now, she wont even take her phone when i call to ask her how goes.

This time, i wont say ****, i will be busy being myself, and focus on myself for a bit - this way, she can miss me - and if she doesn't, then she didn't want me in the first place.

Regards !

 

[Scars]

She's doing the whole "this is what you're missing out on, I'm going to make you regret ever leaving me" game. Generally, you need to wait it out until the girl pulls this card and bends for you first, or rekindling is out of the question. You just reinforced her (and what all of her girlfriends have pounded into her head) belief that the break-up was for the best. The ball is in her court. You pretty much told her that you made a mistake and you want her back. Now she's saying no.

It's time to move on bro.

-Scars

 

[handle]

I did the same (broke up for no real reason). Waited a few days, decided it was dumb. Waited a few more days because you can never really trust your own thoughts after a breakup. Then she got in touch with me and it was back on. Good luck, I would emphasize thinking it over a bit, and not contacting her for a little while because maybe she'll get back in touch.