how to get your gf to NOT chill where u are

[nubian-knight]

my gfs very sweet but wants to literally spend any free time we each have toghether. sometimes if im at a party or my boys house i DONT want her coming. its funny cuz i never bring her but shel always end up driving over which is thoughtful that she wants to see me but not all the time u kno?

when i try to tell her not to come it hurts her feelings and she complies but how do i get her to not automatically rush to wherever i am without hurting her feelings

 

[foomee]

tell her that it's "guys night", meaning guys ONLY! or if it becomes a big problem, be serious about it and tell her that yeah you like hanging out with her, but you also like just hanging out with the guys. or plan a guys night when she's busy? does she have friends? my ex was with me constantly. she was a transfer student to my school and had no friends, except for the people i hung out with so it got annoying. seeing each other too much can only lead to problems. :/

 

[nubian-knight]

tell her that it's "guys night", meaning guys ONLY! or if it becomes a big problem, be serious about it and tell her that yeah you like hanging out with her, but you also like just hanging out with the guys. or plan a guys night when she's busy? does she have friends? my ex was with me constantly. she was a transfer student to my school and had no friends, except for the people i hung out with so it got annoying. seeing each other too much can only lead to problems. :/

she works alot so her social life isnt too active right now.

i told her that and she understands that but i liek having "guys nights" fairly often andshe seems to think she should also be friends with my friends which i dont mind, so long as its not EVREY time

 

[nubian-knight]

Bump

 

[j-flex]

tell her to fock off

tell her you have a life and she should have one too. tell her she is a complement to your life, not your everything.

also tell her to get a life and stop buggin you, you will see her whenever you want to.

put that hoe in check

 

[Rhoto]

tell her to fock off

tell her you have a life and she should have one too. tell her she is a complement to your life, not your everything.

also tell her to get a life and stop buggin you, you will see her whenever you want to.

put that hoe in check

A little crude, but the only post that is the most beneficial to you.

If she can't accept these terms, time for another lady(ies).

 

[AKA FLEX]

my gfs very sweet but wants to literally spend any free time we each have toghether. sometimes if im at a party or my boys house i DONT want her coming. its funny cuz i never bring her but shel always end up driving over which is thoughtful that she wants to see me but not all the time u kno?

when i try to tell her not to come it hurts her feelings and she complies but how do i get her to not automatically rush to wherever i am without hurting her feelings

Dude, I am a magnet for these types of chicks, so I feel your pain.

The best thing you can do is sit her down and tell her straight up that your time with your boys is important to you and if she wants to be in a relationship with you, that is something she is going to have to accept. Do not bend or break on this.

I have NEVER had a girl even threaten to end a relationship with me when I stood my ground on this issue. Granted, and I hate to say it, but relationships with this kind of chick don't usually work in the long run anyway, but when you bring the hammer down on this, she will oblige.