"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get women after college/grad school

optimusprime

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After a guy graduates from college and does not go to college parties anymore, how do you get women? The hook-up pickup probably does not work in bars or clubs, because it is not an enclosed environment like a frat house or a college campus. But hooking-up is mostly what is done in college. What's the scene when you enter the real world? I would argue that "asking out" does not work in the real world, since that was my experience from college.

No one goes on dates anymore. Thanks to feminism and the other developments, it is just "hook-up" time. Very attractive women tend to have extremely low self-esteem, so they want to be treated "badly" in an emotional sense. Basically, you both get drunk and hook-up, then next her. Or if you remember her name, you guys will simply go into a relationship. In this day and age, a "relationship" is simply a friends with benefits type of arrangement.

If a HB has been in a sorority, she has been programmed to be treated badly. When you suggest dinner or a movie, you come across as a chump. Attractive women get these offers all the time. So should you suggest that you guys meet up at a bar and get drinks? Again, attractive women have very low self-esteem and get offers of dinners all the time. If you are a ****y, confident, and funny guy, all you need to do is get them drunk. That being said, I am not the most confident guy and I do not know how to do the ****y and funny way; but I know it works because guys much less good-looking than me and poorer got women that I messed my chances with due to AFC stuff like "let's go to dinner." So how do you bag women after college and grad since it is a hook-up world but the "hooking-up" environment is not there outside of college?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why are you listing off a bunch of sh!t about the way women act and stuff as if there facts? It's not like you actually know. Go take up a class in danceing or some sh!t and hit on the chics there or go to the libary or go hang out at street corners late at night and start roaring from the bushes when they walk by. All this good.
 

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What does it matter if you go to college or not? there is nothing like sarging at a university/college. There is no other place you will find more hot girls walking around. Of course most guys don't have the confidence to approach moving targets and day game is something that most guys are a little afraid of since the girls are not in a social mood like they are in bars. But if you get the confidence to sarge in your local campus you will never run out of a place to meet women you could always go to the college campus.
 

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TonyWongButOhSoRite said:
Why are you listing off a bunch of sh!t about the way women act and stuff as if there facts? It's not like you actually know. Go take up a class in danceing or some sh!t and hit on the chics there or go to the libary or go hang out at street corners late at night and start roaring from the bushes when they walk by. All this good.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There's another thread with the same language elsewhere. I dunno which was first. Both about women wanting bad treatment.

So, it looks like you want women to want bad treatment (true or no, I'll reserve my opinion.)

So, treat 'em bad, bubba, and see how it goes. I'm not saying you're wrong or you're right. But that's where you ARE right now. Play it out. Report back.


(((ASIDE: There's "treating bad." and then there's "treating bad." You gotta "walk the line.")))

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