"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how to get to her place

GoldVault505

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Tomorrow, I'll doing some cold approaches for the first time. I have done the mental reinforcement of my good qualities such that I finally have the confidence. I am gifted with a sharp, quick wit that drives ladies crazy. Many a time at the supermarket checkout (Trader Joe's Union Square), I've made girls laugh so hard that I KNOW I could fvck them if only I made her laugh outside of her workplace. I'm bound and determined to approach hotties and make them laugh, kino, get a little racy with the humor, close, then BAM! just like Emeril friggin Legasse. :yes:

The only remaining worry I have is this. I'm 20, but I look older and she'd probably expect me to have my own place. But I'm in school, and my dorm room is messy, and while I could clean it up, it seems like a lost cause because it's so tiny, and the common area is so trashed, that it could kill the vibe really quickly. It's just a thin wedge of space above the city streets, and the beds are elevated like bunk beds and I have a roommate, etc.

So is there any way to get girls to take YOU home instead? I'm afraid that I could waste tons of game on a chick, only to have her get suspicious if I tried to steer us to her place instead of mine. Any guys have some advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJoseCantosie

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I don't got much experience with this, but why not still take her to the dorm anyways. Still give it a shot. Why be afraid to? She'll let u know if she doesn't want to. To her place, hmmm...u could just say..."lets go do XXXXX at ur place" She again will say yes or no. These are some ideas :-D
 

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If it's after a date and you are bringing her home, just follow her into her apartment like it's no big deal. Couples typically go out eat and home to fvck. Just act like it's your 50th date instead of your first. Like asking permission to touch, kiss, and fvck her - I just don't. This makes it the easiest on her to say yes, by allowing her to say nothing.
 

GoldVault505

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the only thing is that I wouldn't really have a pretext to "bring her home" as I live in NYC. The subway works all by itself. As my focus is day game, there's very little need for the idea of me escorting her home to protect her from the evils of the night. On the other hand, I might be over-thinking this. I guess I'll have to just ballsify and embrace the Nike slogan like a religion.
 
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