How to get this girls number

[Aesthetix29]

Ok I sent her this:-

Morning ... I'm picking you up at 7 O'Clock Saturday afternoon, So get your glad rags on...(; Xx

Which was 8 hours ago.. To which she hasn't replied... But I'm not sure she will as I'm not asking her a question. My intention was to come across confident and willing to take a risks... A bit different to your average joe.
But I kind of need confirmation so u can get a table booked etc... Do you think it's the kind of message she should reply too ? Cheers

 

[No.Danny]

You seem too invested.

 

[cordoncordon]

You seem way too into her, and she is not showing a lot of high IL in you. Think about it, do you think she is writing some message board and asking all her friends what she should say to you or text you on a minute by minute basis?

Of course not.

As for the trip, my guess is she is somewhat interested in you, but also going on a vacation to London. She probably would have gone with just about anyone.


Relax. You have NOTHING to gain by appearing so eager. You have a ton to gain by playing hard to get and making her come to you. You start off this way with this girl (chasing her) and you are going to be doing that the rest of whatever relationship you end up having with her. Establish the boundaries and the playing field now and it will pay off later.

 

[SomeGirls]

I have a feeling this won't end well for you OP. I would fall back and live my life. Leave all the guesswork to her.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Well I think your right I've made it clear that I'm interested .. She can make the next move if at all, as for this London trip... We've deceived to cancel it... Prices are far too expensive £650 for 3 days.

Just going fall back and move on... If she's interested then I'm sure things will escalate next time we meet.