"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get this b*tch back

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Im not one to call any girl a bi*ch but honestly this chick at work is a complete bi*ch and crossed the line. Im looking to get her back, he embarrassed me and made me feel like sh*t. A while ago I told her if she continues to act like that and give everyone an attitude shes going to die lonely and un happy. Seems to phase her a bit. This time it just pissed me off. I did one wrong thing at work, and she went off on me. She isnt even my manager is what gets me. I didnt want to say fu*k you you cu*t because I might get fired. So I took it, but taking it made me feel like a bi*ch my self.

What would you guys do to get someone back that yelled at you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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f283000 said:
A lot of times aggressive women will bully/pick on nice guys they are attracted to signaling that you need to man up.
Shes like that to most people, atleast I think she is. When I step it up she has no comback, its weird. Thanks for the advice man, maybe u r right. Im letting the fact of my job get in the way. Im on probation and it wouldn't look good if I get fired, which is why im being careful.

Oh and get this, I found out through other people apparently shes a lesbian. But I dont believe it for a second tho, i think shes bi sexual.
 

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Try this -
1. Next time she goes off at you just stand there, stare her down, slowly shake your head from side to side like you would do with a ranting child and turn and walk away.
That sends her the message that you are not fazed by her explosion and it also protects your position .

If she goes off a second time after that, do this -
2. Stand absolutely statue-like when she is ranting, wait one or two seconds after she is done and then burst out in laughter , roll your eyes and walk away.

Say NOTHING in either case.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The past two responses are probally my best bet..Thanks for the answers guys
 

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Freeze her out, simple as that. If she bothers you just say "whatever" and walk away.
 

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The secretary at my job is like that, loud, ghetto thinks shes the boss of everyone. I have no problems telling her to shut up, she doesn't know what the hell she's talking about. Then when she starts acting all ghetto and cursing, I just stare at her and tell her to prove what she's saying. I keep asking questions and dismantling her anwsers until its obvious that she has no idea what she is talking about. Then I make a joke so we all can laugh and talk about something light and move on. She knows the score, she just got owned, and every knows it, but I don't rub it in her face. She treats me like a son now, but I know better than to trust that harpy.
 

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Long story short I found out shes bi-polar. Just like my self. Which is probably why we clash so much. Im going to have to work with her on Sunday for some schedule ****. I appreciate all of your answers guys, im def going to keep them in mind for the next time she acts up.
 
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