"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to get the rocker chick.

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Hi guys, I'm new to this help thing, but here's my problem. I guess I'll just start from the beginning. I'll be as descriptive as possible.

About 2 months ago I started noticing this hardcore rocker chick in my school. drop. dead. GORGEOUS. No boyfriend. oh boy. So basically like the dumb*ss I am I didn't jump on it like I should have. It was alright though because she kinda came on to me. I was walking down the hall and I hear a voice from behind me saying "Nice ass". So i turn around and there she is, in all her alternative beauty. omg. we talk and hit it off pretty good. Later on that week, I take her on a spur-of-the-moment thing to dairy queen and get her number. we seemed to be getting along pretty good. the bad part is we haven't talked alot since. her phone got taken up and I got in trouble and sent to alternative school. schools out now. I got her house phone number from her on myspace about 3 days ago. I just want to know what i should do next. I really like her and don't wanna mess this up. any advice djs?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Plan something with your boys, call her up and tell her your doing (whatever it is you planned) with your friends and she should come along(Don't ask, suggest). Make sure your best friends are their and that you have a lot of social proof at this shindig with a lot of people to introduce her to. But under no circumstances do you ever let her know that you really like her, that will just put her on a pedestal and she will walk all over you just like the other 500+ guys at your school.
 
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that sounds pretty good. or sh*t I'm a lifeguard, maybe i should suggest she go to the pool to chill. also from what she tells me, she's pretty big into weed. so am I. could i invite her with some friends of mine to smoke?
 
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Johnelvislara said:
that sounds pretty good. or sh*t I'm a lifeguard, maybe i should suggest she go to the pool to chill. also from what she tells me, she's pretty big into weed. so am I. could i invite her with some friends of mine to smoke?
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Yea invite her to the pool with your friends and tell her to bring a few of hers...that way you dont have to deal with any possible awkwardness of not talking to her for a while...and be careful about smoking with her cuz depending on how each of highs are, it could be a good or bad experience (like maybe ur the kind of person that doesnt talk when theyre high).

From my experience tho, I literally lose ALL of my game when im high, and my friends lose theirs too. Idk why it happens but for whatever reason, if im high I simply cannot get any girls.
 
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Would have to agree with eaglez1177, pool sounds great. If things are going good while you are there show off and teach her some lifeguarding things like the difference between a distressed swimmer and active drowning victim. And if things are going REAL good show her one or two of the rescue skills that would put you in the position of using some kino(active drowing rear rescue comes to mind). Not sure if it still works on High School girls but it seems if you can teach them something interesting they eat that crap up.

I also suggest staying away from the 420 for this one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Raw dawg that shït bro and when you pull out nut in her eyes! Good luck man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As suggested make small talk and do some **** with friends, leave the weed away for the first time. Continue to do small **** then introduce weed. Once you have built up her trust, take her to a nice restaurant and slip her some Flunitrazepam into her drink. Make sure you do this near the end of the meal. Then you take her back to her place to watch a movie or some **** and she should be out by the time you get there. Alert some friends of your activities, and have them ready to help you carry her into whoever's house you're going to, make sure nobody's around. Then you can give her some kind of dissociative, something like PCP, and then you guys basically take turns having sex with her. Keep this up until she starts to awaken, and because of the drugs she'll think she is still dreaming and since she's into you she'll be turned on. Then when she realizes it's reality, she'll be like oh **** yeah all my dreams are real, then bang, you've got the rocker chick
 
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