Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to get the rep(back)

bmwderek

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Hey,

I have a problem. Im friends with alot of people at school, Im known for being quiet, but also funny(albeit in a darker, more sarcastic way), and am well liked by everyone. Except the hot girl clique. I can be "rude" to them, which gets laughs from my buddies, and the other females, but not the ones I want. Im regarded in pretty low standing by them.

What can I do?

Derek
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bmwderek

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I cant remember specifics, but just stuff that everyone finds funny, except the victim. I guess it could be considered C/F or "busting" on the girl, but a bit over the edge.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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and then you wonder why they don't like you?

dude, girls have feelings too. if some girl said something mean everytime you walked by and everyone laughed, you would HATE her.

have some commen sense
 
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