"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to Get that Girl?

DoubleBarrel

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I'm new here, and I've read a handful of the tips but where do I start? I like this girl that I've known for a few months from school and now I see that I've been a really nice guy to her in a shy way. But how do I start using the don juan way with her and getting her to experience attraction with me?

I don't feel comfortable using c&f as my confidence level I think is too low. So what's the first step I should take to get her?

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok here is the way to get her.

1. Take that vagina out of your pants and replace it with a penis.
2. Read many, if not all the threads in the bible.
3. Forget about this current girl.
4. Begin to understand DJ-ism.
5. Practice in real life what you have learned.
6. Leave this forum, and master what you have learned
7. Now, you are able to get the girl, but there will be so many other girls chasing after you that you'll forget about her.

this would be ideal, but i see ur in a hurry looking for a quick solution. No quick solution will work well and change you, but maybe you can fool her into liking you with a couple of tricks.

Before any of us can help you, can u tell me what the relationship between you and this girl is? Like do you follow her around, how many times do you see her, age, amount of guys she has around her, you social status, if she responds to you, and if she pays attention to you. Things like that will help me determine what you should do.
 

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ok here is the way to get her.

1. Take that vagina out of your pants and replace it with a penis.
2. Read many, if not all the threads in the bible.
3. Forget about this current girl.
4. Begin to understand DJ-ism.
5. Practice in real life what you have learned.
6. Leave this forum, and master what you have learned
7. Now, you are able to get the girl, but there will be so many other girls chasing after you that you'll forget about her.

this would be ideal, but i see ur in a hurry looking for a quick solution. No quick solution will work well and change you, but maybe you can fool her into liking you with a couple of tricks.


Great advice :up: . I would listen to this guy
 

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Crazy Asian said:
Before any of us can help you, can u tell me what the relationship between you and this girl is? Like do you follow her around, how many times do you see her, age, amount of guys she has around her, you social status, if she responds to you, and if she pays attention to you. Things like that will help me determine what you should do.
Well we're in one of the same classes and we sit beside each other so I see her 3 times a week. This is my last class in the day so I walk with her to her bus stop before I go to my car. I'm 22 and I'm pretty shy. Yes, we talk and stuff. When she missed a class I photocopied my notes for her and then when I missed a class she photocopied her notes for me.

Hope that helps and what are the best threads to read first in the bible?

Thanks again
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DoubleBarrel said:
I don't feel comfortable using c&f as my confidence level I think is too low. So what's the first step I should take to get her?

Thanks
stop thinking and start doing. thats the only way buddy. let her see your new DJ ways. make her come up to you and start talking to you. dont be afraid to ignore her if shes talking bout somthin stupid. neg hit her. let her ask you to hang out. if she never does, theres plenty more girls out there. and this goes for any girl that u knew when u was an AFC. o ya and start talking to other girls too..

i did this with a girl that i dated wen i was a pvssy ass nice guy and now shes all over me. also, the girls that i tried my nice a$$ luck with last year wont leave me alone. people see u change and start to forget about the old you. trust me dude.
 

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Okay but what are the best articles to get better in DJing? What do you guys think are most important? I see people talk about Pook a lot here. Is his advice good? Who's best to read?

And what should I do during classes? Should I just ignore her completely? Or what should I say to her to things going better?
 

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Listen... any man can get any girl... but its a lifelong battle to keep her, sooner or later she will leave you... i say not worth it... i.e. better to have someone as a life partner/friend...

that movie with nicholas cage, Lord WAR (reverse warlord)... he got this girl, but later on she left his ass... but ofcourse... truth comes out.. sonner or later you cant keep the game going that got her in first place.. so save urself the headache.. if u like a girl, just go for it and let her know, but dont try to change urself.. the key is not to be something your not.. but to be act on what u want to do.. i.e. dont be an AFC... go to her and tell her...
 
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