"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to get sexual favors?

CrimsonPanther

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had some easy lays this way when i started my firm and was looking for employees (phony sexual harassment lawsuits are VERY rare here).
i did it like this: had an interview with the woman, told her she was one of the best candidates, then casually asked her to "go grab a coffee sometimes". they all said yes, and while out for a coffee, i escalated normally / not too aggressive. they always had the opportunity to opt out without being embarrassing for neither of us (i do this on normal dates also).

more than 50% of them was in. they got the job :) some of them initiated even after they got it, and one of my current plates is one of these girls.
the trick was to NEVER be blunt and say "i help you if you help me" keep up that "no strings attached and no pressure" atmosphere. if you make them feel like a ho, or pressured,
1. you will be a creep who must blackmail to get laid - they will not like you
2. they will feel cheap, and reject you AND the job.
but if you play it cool, you can land a few plates from it, and even good friends.
in my firm we are almost like a family now, mostly because of this friendly start.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sylvester the cat

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Briandaman said:
All I am simply asking in this thread is, what is ANOTHER way to say: "let's go have sex" - which BTW is something even the most FORWARD and HONEST person wouldn't say to someone they just met. Hell I know husbands who'd never flat out say that to their wives and they've been married for years!

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Asking them out for a drink IS another way of saying let's go have sex, OP...
 

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This:

CrimsonPanther said:
had some easy lays this way when i started my firm and was looking for employees (phony sexual harassment lawsuits are VERY rare here).
i did it like this: had an interview with the woman, told her she was one of the best candidates, then casually asked her to "go grab a coffee sometimes". they all said yes, and while out for a coffee, i escalated normally / not too aggressive. they always had the opportunity to opt out without being embarrassing for neither of us (i do this on normal dates also).

more than 50% of them was in. they got the job :) some of them initiated even after they got it, and one of my current plates is one of these girls.
the trick was to NEVER be blunt and say "i help you if you help me" keep up that "no strings attached and no pressure" atmosphere. if you make them feel like a ho, or pressured,
1. you will be a creep who must blackmail to get laid - they will not like you
2. they will feel cheap, and reject you AND the job.
but if you play it cool, you can land a few plates from it, and even good friends.
in my firm we are almost like a family now, mostly because of this friendly start.


And This:

sylvester the cat said:
Asking them out for a drink IS another way of saying let's go have sex, OP...
:up: = BRILLIANT! So upon accepting the invite, it's safe to assume they're pretty much if they're up for it, just gotta put on the charm, hype up the opportunity and transition?

"Want to go to my place and hang out for a bit?" should work eh?
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
had some easy lays this way when i started my firm and was looking for employees (phony sexual harassment lawsuits are VERY rare here).
Where are you located, out of curiosity? And how have you determined that phony sexual harassment suits are extremely rare in your area?
 

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Briandaman said:
I'm VERY honest with myself. My thing is instead of running some "game" for weeks on end, I just be upfront and make an offer.

I'm just wondering what's the best way to word it. Yes, I love the drink idea, but as I said earlier, I'm looking for lines.

And by lines I don't mean game,

All I am simply asking in this thread is, what is ANOTHER way to say: "let's go have sex" - which BTW is something even the most FORWARD and HONEST person wouldn't say to someone they just met. Hell I know husbands who'd never flat out say that to their wives and they've been married for years!

Nice try at an hypocrisy witch hunt, but you won't find such when dealing with me.
Lol..go read mode one.

http://www.amazon.com/MODE-ONE-Wome...swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&sr=8-1&qid=1395857016
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CrimsonPanther

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Bokanovsky said:
Where are you located, out of curiosity? And how have you determined that phony sexual harassment suits are extremely rare in your area?
i have moved to romania 2 years ago for tax reasons regading my company. i LOVE this place! basically all eastern europe is cool with this stuff, and i cannot recall ONE sexual harassment charge i know of since i moved here. even if true, people settle this among themselves. also the whole feminism stuff is on the "who cares" agenda of the polititians and law, so nobody takes it seriously.
also, in these situations (when the boss hits on a cute employee), they can still accept/reject and that's it. one has to be an ******* to fire the secretary for not wanting to put out. there are cases, but very rare.
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
i have moved to romania 2 years ago for tax reasons regading my company. i LOVE this place! basically all eastern europe is cool with this stuff, and i cannot recall ONE sexual harassment charge i know of since i moved here.
That explains it, lol. The former eastern block is like a different planet compared to North America and Western Europe. Your advice should have come with a warning: do not try this at home!
 
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